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Im fasting yh...

but i cant help myself...is it just me...or everytime Im walkin down the streets I cant help but notice and look (more than usual) at womens breasts/bums/body/legs/....

and walahi i dont do dis normally...but since the start of ramadan...i cant help myself...

is it shaytaan? or is it the fact because I cant look yh, i am?

Am I alone in this? r the rest of the guyz out der normally looking constantly at what u wouldnt normally look at?

blad !

sheydaans r locked up dis month

but u juz keep ur head dwn...

SHEYTAANS ARE not the problem...u are......jus LOWER YOUR GAZE WHEN YOU WALKIN PAST THEM................................

GO GET URSELF A WIFEY MATE .......IF U WANA LOOK ....DO IT THE HALAL WAY ..

I...am...not...A...problem....

im just sayin dis started happenin since ramadan...

n i do try n lower my gaze...

OK

N wonder woman yh i need a wifey init lol....but its hard to fine a decent guy girl dese dayz...inshallah afta ramadan maybe...

[quote="East.Co"]I...am...not...A...problem....

im just sayin dis started happenin since ramadan...

n i do try n lower my gaze...

OK

N wonder woman yh i need a wifey init lol....but its hard to fine a decent guy girl dese dayz...inshallah afta ramadan maybe...[/quote]

lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllll@inshallah after ramadan...ur talkin like u gonna go to asda's and pick up a wifey on the way to gettin the milk and bread! Y does every guy use that lame excuse "ders no decent girls nowadays"...I think its hard to find a decent guy dese dayz they either one of the following or all (allah help them:
1. marfish maniac's
2. liquor heads
3. drug abusers
4. plain useless spongers (if they sponge of there own hoyo..wat good r they gonna do 4 u)
5. Womaniser

walahi if our somali brotha's practiced der deen well dese things wudnt even be a problem!

[quote="knowledge is power"]
I think its hard to find a
decent guy dese dayz they either one of the following or all (allah
help them:
1. marfish maniac's
2. liquor heads
3. drug abusers
4. plain useless spongers (if they sponge of there own hoyo..wat good r they gonna do 4 u)
5. Womaniser

walahi if our somali brotha's practiced der deen well dese things wudnt even be a problem![/quote]

HOWWWW CAN U SAY ALL DAT...N NOT SAY A WORD ABOUT YOUR SPECIES YOU HYPOCRITE...LOOK AT [b]DIS[/b] FOLLOWIN BOUT GIRLS!

1. boyz may be marfish maniacs...but 98% of all marfishes are owned by somali women...they are the satan of chad.
2. liquor heads apply to women as well...
3. drug abusers apply to women as well...
4. PLAIN USELESS SPONGERS??? - your the people that stay at home n dont work n dont go uni or anyfin coz u belive that your gonna end up a housewife anyway.
5. Womanisers? how r we womanisers? u lot r stush!

Dont come with dem talks sister!

No it's the fact that you cant look ...that's making you look, the more you try not to look, the more you think about looking so you eventually look.


read the quran son!.

i personally think its the shaytaan thats make you look at women different and i think the best thing for you is to just say ISTAFULLAH (mine ma spellin)

BUT THEN AGAIN during the holy month i heard that the Allah usually takes the shaytaan away i really dont no but thats what i heard....

best thing for you is to put your head down.

kid devious

HOWWWW CAN U SAY ALL DAT...N NOT SAY A WORD ABOUT YOUR SPECIES YOU HYPOCRITE...LOOK AT [b]DIS[/b] FOLLOWIN BOUT GIRLS!

1. boyz may be marfish maniacs...but 98% of all marfishes are owned by somali women...they are the satan of chad.
2. liquor heads apply to women as well...
3. drug abusers apply to women as well...
4. PLAIN USELESS SPONGERS??? - your the people that stay at home n dont work n dont go uni or anyfin coz u belive that your gonna end up a housewife anyway.
5. Womanisers? how r we womanisers? u lot r stush!

Dont come with dem talks sister! [/quote]

Walaal last thing Iam is a hypocrite...im not blind of course i see the path my fellow somali sisters are taking, not all but majority anywayz! But all i was stating is dat u dont have to keep repeating da same old excuse of ''theres no decent girls left' inshallah god will provide u with a decent girl if ur a decent guy! All i was saying is works both ways!

assalamu aleykum brother, i used to have this same problem.

ive got two statements for you , that will inshallah make your heart firm.

Firstly remember that..

“The patience of trying to restrain the glances is much easier than the patience of trying to restrain what comes after that.”

secondly..

“Whoever seeks to be chaste, Allah will make him chaste, and whoever seeks to be independent of means, Allah will make him independent of means, and whoever strives to be patient, Allah will make him patient…” (Al-Bukhari)

so keep striving akhi, because we are on this earth to seek the pleasure of Allah.

Also remember

“Allah knows the fraud of the eyes, and all that the hearts conceal.” (Ghafir:19)

You know them little glance's that no ones noticed, Allah talaa noticed it and its been recorded.

walaikuma salaam.