Heartbroken story; about "cyberlovve"

[XALIMOZ]

I'm so heartbroken lately and i just don't know how to handle it. I need someone to share my story with cause I feel like I have no one.
I'm a normal 18 year old somali chick who always thought dating and stuff was haram, I've never dated in my whole life. However I met this farah online wun day when I was chatting "just for fun" on a somali chatroom. I wasnt looking for someone or something. Anyways I gave this guy my addy, and we've been chatting ova a year now. I never expected to fall in love with him, but I did, after a couple months of chatting. He became like my bestfriend and I could tell him everything. He told me he loved me once and that day felt like my happiest day ever. However last night I found out something about him, that I wish wouldnt. Last night my bestfriend told me she was having a chat with this guy (I gave him her email months ago), anyways he was trying to flirt with her and staff, and she asked him if he had a "girlfriend". He answered "No, I'm available so we can hook it up". I was kinda shocked when my girl told me, I really thought I could trust him. I told him everything about myself, my family, my friends...and I even gave him my homeadress and my tel (I really regret that afterwarsd) Sent him pics and everything. I was really serious about "us". Planing when and where we would meet, I was even counting the days.
I feel so foolish, now that I know who he really is. He've been lying to me all the time while I were honest with him. I gave him the power to play with my feelings and break my heart into million pieces. And I really wish I wud neva meet him. I feel so depressed when ever I think of what he did to me. I been wasting time on someone who dont give a fock about me, cant sleep, cant drink, cant even eat my afuur proper and do my prayers without crying.
This is killing me, I feel like giving up on love!
What shall I do? Please give me advices..

P.s I'm new to this place so I hope you guys welcome me

saalamz

[kadafi007]

Damn girl you should never trust someone online my advice to you is snap back to reality and let bygones be bygones learn from your mistakes never trust someone online.

[Hatersss]

Walal you two are not together yet, he may have declared his jaceyl for you but that doesn't mean he should't flirt with others so unless you two decide to date, you can stiill flirt with others.

[Hatersss]

BTW
Cyber sex > Cyber love 8) 8)

[FAH1223]

I really wonder if this is an alias?

But in the spirit of Ramadan, I'm not going to judge. Welcome!

But sis, you gave out way too much information. Why would you give out your address and information like that out to some dude a million miles away?

The internet is a very scary place and you need to take this place with a grain of salt sometimes.

[Hatersss]

^^

i gave out my bank details to this girl once

[HELWAA]

I'm so sorry sister.......but this should be a great lesson for you...remember
most of the faraxs who is online are losers foqal losers noolasha ka dhacy
who dosent give a daam about other pples feelings.You trusted him and he fooled you.Just be gratefull that you did't do anything with him or met him.

I know you are hurting right now.........BUT remember now you are
'crying and he is laughing......DONT GIVE HIM THAT SATISFACTION SIS AND MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE.


Allah showed YOU his true color be grateful for that and inshallah you will
meét someone better with taqwah




PS- NEXT TIME YOU ARE CHATTING WITH SOMEONE NEVER GIVE HIM UR ADRESS OR PHONE-NR........BISINKA

[Madmadoobe]

^So Helwa you and I can never have a cyber relationship that means?

[HELWAA]

[quote="Madmadoobe"]^So Helwa you and I can never have a cyber relationship that means?[/quote]

NEVER.

[Madmadoobe]

^ How about a real one then? C'mon helwaa your not that special , or are you taken?

[HELWAA]

WARYAA dont hijack the thread sticK to the topic......the girl asked for advice so give her or just USKOT YAA XAYWAAN.

[Ghetto_Faarax]

hehehehe, aaaah pooor thing..... Looks like u Been Punked looooooooool

sh''it happens hey

[Madmadoobe]

[quote="HELWAA"]WARYAA dont hijack the thread sticK to the topic......the girl asked for advice so give her or just USKOT YAA XAYWAAN. [/quote]

Helwaa why are you swearing in the last days of Rmadan? More importantly, why are you always in a shitty mood? I have never seen you happy, which is what attracts me to you. I want to make you happy for once in your miserable life helwaa, so where shall where shall we start?

[HELWAA]

loooooooooooooooooooooooooooool

well you should know by now....every time i'm online i'm pissed

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

[quote="XALIMOZ"]I'm so heartbroken lately and i just don't know how to handle it. I need someone to share my story with cause I feel like I have no one.
I'm a normal 18 year old somali chick who always thought dating and stuff was haram, I've never dated in my whole life. However I met this farah online wun day when I was chatting "just for fun" on a somali chatroom. I wasnt looking for someone or something. Anyways I gave this guy my addy, and we've been chatting ova a year now. I never expected to fall in love with him, but I did, after a couple months of chatting. He became like my bestfriend and I could tell him everything. He told me he loved me once and that day felt like my happiest day ever. However last night I found out something about him, that I wish wouldnt. Last night my bestfriend told me she was having a chat with this guy (I gave him her email months ago), anyways he was trying to flirt with her and staff, and she asked him if he had a "girlfriend". He answered "No, I'm available so we can hook it up". I was kinda shocked when my girl told me, I really thought I could trust him. I told him everything about myself, my family, my friends...and I even gave him my homeadress and my tel (I really regret that afterwarsd) Sent him pics and everything. I was really serious about "us". Planing when and where we would meet, I was even counting the days.
I feel so foolish, now that I know who he really is. He've been lying to me all the time while I were honest with him. I gave him the power to play with my feelings and break my heart into million pieces. And I really wish I wud neva meet him. I feel so depressed when ever I think of what he did to me. I been wasting time on someone who dont give a fock about me, cant sleep, cant drink, cant even eat my afuur proper and do my prayers without crying.
This is killing me, I feel like giving up on love!
What shall I do? Please give me advices..

P.s I'm new to this place so I hope you guys welcome me

saalamz[/quote]

damm

dammmmmmmmm