Xalimo Background Checks: Best Practices
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Xalimo Background Checks: Best Practices
What techniques have Faraxs used to conduct Xalimo background checks?
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Re: Xalimo Background Checks: Best Practices
Her girlfriends.
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Ask your friends that might know her....Stalk if you have to but make sure you do your back up check no matter what, trust me sxb you dont want to be fooled like some poor faraxs...
Also talk normal with her, let her be natural with you she will feel comfortable and let you in about what she's really about... With some Xalimos it takes a long time to figure out because their really good at covering all their dirt...
Also talk normal with her, let her be natural with you she will feel comfortable and let you in about what she's really about... With some Xalimos it takes a long time to figure out because their really good at covering all their dirt...
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Gedo_boy
since you are Ilkoyar , if she is Ilkoyar its simple just hold her hand , if she has soft hand leave her alone roo much mileage , but if she has hard hand she is good believe ME this one .
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since you are Ilkoyar , if she is Ilkoyar its simple just hold her hand , if she has soft hand leave her alone roo much mileage , but if she has hard hand she is good believe ME this one .
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Qansa & Alchemist,
Good points.
Af_Libaax,
What if she's 'Iljeex'
Good points.
Af_Libaax,
What if she's 'Iljeex'

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Men just wish that you get lucky. To be honest with you, you can’t know a chick in spite of how many background checks you do.
But one thing you should look out for are naagaha caanka ah. If her ass is recognized by many then you best believe that her ass has been around block.
But one thing you should look out for are naagaha caanka ah. If her ass is recognized by many then you best believe that her ass has been around block.
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1nemansquad,
I'm still laughing at our Rascal Flatts bond
I'm still laughing at our Rascal Flatts bond

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man I'm a Matchbox 20 type 

Re: Xalimo Background Checks: Best Practices
I never bother doing background checks...the woman is not the only one to have some record you know..
Let her do the talking and make her feel important..she will reveal many things to you that way than what some jealous woman or fokep up guy could ever tell you about her.
For me that works most of the time....but remember one thing...dont use anything she told you against her...ever.
PS. Good luck
Let her do the talking and make her feel important..she will reveal many things to you that way than what some jealous woman or fokep up guy could ever tell you about her.
For me that works most of the time....but remember one thing...dont use anything she told you against her...ever.
PS. Good luck

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[quote="Cawar"]
Let her do the talking and make her feel important..she will reveal many things to you that way
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Cawar,
What the fukk is this? Let her do the talking?!!! So you basically sit on the other corner of the sofa and look at her and BOOOM!!! Xalimo will open up and fess how many Farahs, Toms and Nguyens she sukked?!!!
I have never seen a dumber opinion than this one. Waryaa, and all this time I thought you were a paesano.
GB,
Use Eeddo Cambaro aka habraha Somalida, one thing I can tell you is that, these old women will give the FBI a run for their money when it comes to background check
Let her do the talking and make her feel important..she will reveal many things to you that way
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Cawar,
What the fukk is this? Let her do the talking?!!! So you basically sit on the other corner of the sofa and look at her and BOOOM!!! Xalimo will open up and fess how many Farahs, Toms and Nguyens she sukked?!!!
I have never seen a dumber opinion than this one. Waryaa, and all this time I thought you were a paesano.
GB,
Use Eeddo Cambaro aka habraha Somalida, one thing I can tell you is that, these old women will give the FBI a run for their money when it comes to background check
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[quote="Cawar"]I never bother doing background checks...the woman is not the only one to have some record you know..
Let her do the talking and make her feel important..she will reveal many things to you that way than what some jealous woman or fokep up guy could ever tell you about her.
For me that works most of the time....but remember one thing...dont use anything she told you against her...ever.
PS. Good luck
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cawar......

Gedo,
take notes from cawar...specially when he says the following:
" Let her do the talking and make her feel important..she will reveal many things to you that way than what some jealous woman or fokep up guy could ever tell you about her."
this is something most guys miss out on...he who listens knows her well....cawar is one slick s.o.b.

Let her do the talking and make her feel important..she will reveal many things to you that way than what some jealous woman or fokep up guy could ever tell you about her.
For me that works most of the time....but remember one thing...dont use anything she told you against her...ever.
PS. Good luck

cawar......


Gedo,
take notes from cawar...specially when he says the following:
" Let her do the talking and make her feel important..she will reveal many things to you that way than what some jealous woman or fokep up guy could ever tell you about her."
this is something most guys miss out on...he who listens knows her well....cawar is one slick s.o.b.


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Lugoy
Being paesano has got nothing to do with this....believe me if I want to know how many guys she kissed or done whatever with(although I dont want to) I would rather she told me than hearing from Cali kuus whom she said no to one day or Jaamac dheere who just hates her guts..
Besides it works for me like a charm..all the time...you just jave to know how to extract the juice from her at ease...you dont have to use the torture method in order to get valuable infor from her...again...eventhough I wouldnt want to hear it from anyone else..
Z,
Ya think??..lol... we say in af xamar Geel kuuloow maxaas ka kasaa...many guys who think they really know what all women are about dont really know anything except wht you devilish creatures want us to know...
Being paesano has got nothing to do with this....believe me if I want to know how many guys she kissed or done whatever with(although I dont want to) I would rather she told me than hearing from Cali kuus whom she said no to one day or Jaamac dheere who just hates her guts..
Besides it works for me like a charm..all the time...you just jave to know how to extract the juice from her at ease...you dont have to use the torture method in order to get valuable infor from her...again...eventhough I wouldnt want to hear it from anyone else..
Z,
Ya think??..lol... we say in af xamar Geel kuuloow maxaas ka kasaa...many guys who think they really know what all women are about dont really know anything except wht you devilish creatures want us to know...

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Gedo,
Horta walaal, waxan guurka la yidhaahdo wuxuu ku salaysan yahay nasiib inta badan. Alla maxaa laba aan isu qalmin isku beegmay. Allaa maxaa gabadh sharaf badan aan haysan ninkeedii, maxaase nin qiimo badan ay la degtey naag xun.
But at least we should try to be careful and choose wisely...Here are few recommendations from a sister;
1. Never be fooled by her dress... Yes you wouldn't want to talk to a girl who is scandalously dressed...But trust me all that wears Jilaabiib are not necessarily decent girls.
2. Talk to her neighbors...as the Somali saying goes " Deriskaagu waa ilaalo aan laguu dirisan" That is if she has a neighbor..
3. Talk to her if she lets you to talk..and while having conversations don't show her or tell her what are your preferences...etc..Don't frown on the things you don't like just let her talk and make her comfortable to talk freely..
4. Watch very carefully what are her priorities...You know the worst weakness that a girl can have is stubbornness...Check if is the kind that will listen to a good advice...
5. You have to know that, there are girls that people know who are extremely decent and girls that act as if they are not known and who look down when they are in public but are in actual facts whor'es...Be care full of the actors...I hate them...
6. Don't trust what some men tells you because there are those kind of men out there who love to trash girls that ignore them...Be sure to know what kind of a man you want to ask a question about a girl.
7. You can always ask a female in your family to find out about this girl..Not all females..But one that you trust her judgment..
8. Dee Ilaahay nin buu kaa dhigee, si fiican ugu kuur gal. Fudeydna iska ilaali weligaa...
9. One last advice...Clan shouldn't matter...
Good luck
Horta walaal, waxan guurka la yidhaahdo wuxuu ku salaysan yahay nasiib inta badan. Alla maxaa laba aan isu qalmin isku beegmay. Allaa maxaa gabadh sharaf badan aan haysan ninkeedii, maxaase nin qiimo badan ay la degtey naag xun.
But at least we should try to be careful and choose wisely...Here are few recommendations from a sister;
1. Never be fooled by her dress... Yes you wouldn't want to talk to a girl who is scandalously dressed...But trust me all that wears Jilaabiib are not necessarily decent girls.
2. Talk to her neighbors...as the Somali saying goes " Deriskaagu waa ilaalo aan laguu dirisan" That is if she has a neighbor..
3. Talk to her if she lets you to talk..and while having conversations don't show her or tell her what are your preferences...etc..Don't frown on the things you don't like just let her talk and make her comfortable to talk freely..
4. Watch very carefully what are her priorities...You know the worst weakness that a girl can have is stubbornness...Check if is the kind that will listen to a good advice...
5. You have to know that, there are girls that people know who are extremely decent and girls that act as if they are not known and who look down when they are in public but are in actual facts whor'es...Be care full of the actors...I hate them...
6. Don't trust what some men tells you because there are those kind of men out there who love to trash girls that ignore them...Be sure to know what kind of a man you want to ask a question about a girl.
7. You can always ask a female in your family to find out about this girl..Not all females..But one that you trust her judgment..
8. Dee Ilaahay nin buu kaa dhigee, si fiican ugu kuur gal. Fudeydna iska ilaali weligaa...
9. One last advice...Clan shouldn't matter...
Good luck
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