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One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:16 pm
by kambuli
When you are looking for a girl/guy to marry....The clan should not be an issue...You should not ever worry about the clan he/she hails from...You can get the worst qumay/qumanyo from your clan walaahay...

An Advice from a sister... Drop that condition now... Cool

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:20 pm
by Luq_Ganane
The clan of my future wife is irrelevent. I'll marry any girl, calaf hadee igu jirto. Smile


Laakint this should be directed to the girls more. I've been asked my qabil point blank many times before. Surprised

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:29 pm
by MJ-Pride
Yeah Agreed. I once tried to Shukaansi this girl who was Sacad and she asked me what was my tribe. I asked her what qabiiils you don't want to marry from she said: Abgaal and all Southerners are not my type. She said she want reer wuqooyi or reer mudug. Laughing Laughing Laughing

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:30 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Kambuli,

I respectfully disagree.

I could not see myself being married to a Darood woman with the exception of Ogaden. Nor can I see myself marrying Abgaal or Eelay.

I am a politician and a man who loves his tool. A Shiisheye woman especially Darood will have issues with it especially if my qabiil is going to war with hers.

So its most likely that I will marry:

1. Sacad - Enjoy the relaxation of being amongst toolka and people I know.

2. Ogaden - Maskiin Illahey and Sacad & Ogaden never fought in a direct war.

3. Degodia - My abtiyaal of course.

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:32 pm
by Luq_Ganane
^^

Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

The last one that asked me was a 'Dishishle'. Shocked Laughing

In my head I was like what the hell is that, laakin waan ka gaabsaday to ask, plus I didn't care. Laughing Laughing

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:34 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Luq,

Saxiib, just lie if she is a qabiilist chick on shuukansi.

I once lied all the way to sariirta Laughing

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:36 pm
by MJ-Pride
Abdiwahab,
You are one weak Wallahi. You can take most hardcore qabiilist girl and Habar gederize her(That is if you have the ragganimo required to do so). Hadii kale go bully poor sacad iyo Ogaden girls. I know Harti Women will dominate your fruity ass for sure Laughing Laughing Laughing

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:39 pm
by Gedo_Boy
AbdiWahab,

That doesn't make any sense b/c you can go to war just as easily w/ Ogaaden....

I think waa iska hadal waxaada b/c you were telling me we might be qaraabo soon and now you come w/ this talk Laughing

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:39 pm
by Leila2007
AbdiWahab252

When you marry from a clan that is an enermy you dont become an enemy but a dumashi. That can be a strategy to win over more you get a whole clan to support you Cool

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:42 pm
by Alchemist
There is so much other things to worry about, like the girls history, family, disease rather than worrying about her qabil...

Finding a decent person is hard enough..

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:43 pm
by AbdiWahab252
GedoBoy,

U ain't Rer Diini saxiib, so let it be Laughing Laughing That thing ended.

I have yet to see a Ogaden Sacad war. We got a lot of jaceel and respect for each other. During the droughts Sacad graze in Ogaden lands.


MJPRide:

I have no interest in trying to make her like my qabiil because of me. I am a rising star among toolka and my Awowe told me never to marry into certain qabiils.

Leila2007,

Sasa wewe ni mischana kutoka kabiila gani ?

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:46 pm
by Luq_Ganane
[quote="Alchemist"]There is so much other things to worry about, like the girls history, family, disease rather than worrying about her qabil...

Find a decent person is hard enough..[/quote]

True say up


Plus I think its not even raggnimo to worry about a girls qabil too much. I'll Marexaanize any girl, no matter who she is. Plus Mothers always defend the qabil of their kids, more than their own even. Shocked Laughing

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:47 pm
by precious_dyme
Leila true say, laakin most pple like to marry from their own qabil cuz confrontation iyo balaayo ee ka baqayaan. Thts why they always say marry from ur own qabil berke waa is af fahmeysiin....

Aniga personally waxaas ma la riyaaqo.

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:47 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Luq,


Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

Not with a Sacad woman. She will SACADIZE them Laughing

Re: One Thing To Avoid...

Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 2:47 pm
by Gedo_Boy
Qabiilka dumarka maxaa iga galay aniga......A quality woman is a quality woman.

I have seen some HG girls marka la guursado ayakoo leh 'anakoo Marexaan ah' Laughing