The Cure for PMS !!!!!!!!

[Daanyeer]

............."There is a simple cure for PMS. Two words: “No, dear.” That’s how you avoid the iceberg. Do you have the balls to say them? If so, you will change your life, overnight. If, however, you won’t take the PMS cure, you’ll end up like Jack Dawson. You probably won’t freeze to death, literally, but you might emotionally and financially. Will that make you feel any better? "


Source: mensdaily
Marc H. Rudov
November 18, 2007 at 11:37 am · Filed under Vox Populi

Sinking Feeling
More than 95 years ago, the RMS Titanic sank on its maiden voyage after hitting a huge iceberg that ripped through its hull. The crew, too distracted and preoccupied with the ship’s beauty, didn’t notice the iceberg until it was too late. Accordingly, a man can suffer the same fate if he’s too distracted and preoccupied to take note of a woman’s icebergs.

Many believe that a man and woman must spend a couple of years together before knowing each other well enough to cohabit or marry. I say they need only a couple of weeks. That’s all. Here’s my claim: After spending one solid fortnight in each other’s company, new lovebirds will see, hear, and feel evidence of all the icebergs that will sink them -- if they act naturally and don’t tiptoe around on eggshells to impress each other.

Unfortunately, one of two human failings is at play here: not recognizing an iceberg (she’s an emotional clam) or choosing to ignore it altogether (I shouldn’t be so judgmental). Ask anyone after a recent breakup why his relationship didn’t last -- whether it endured three months or three years -- and, he’ll admit, with a sinking feeling, that he saw the problem immediately after meeting her but chose to overlook it.

Because I make my views known publicly, I receive lots of feedback from men and women around the world. As a frequent TV guest, I get courtesy limousine service to and from the stations. My limo drivers, who also serve international politicians, athletes, celebrities, and businesspeople, tell amazing stories about these luminaries. Consequently, I am bombarded with people’s personal sagas, some of which are shocking and sad. What’s fascinating is that, regardless of our occupations or wealth, we’re all quite similar.

The common thread running through all of our relationships: we see the warning signs -- the icebergs -- early on and choose to ignore them. Then, we spend the remaining months and years reinforcing this self-deception. This happens because our parents and teachers and clergy socialize us to focus on people’s good attributes and minimize their negative ones. As I pointed out in The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women, this is terrible advice. Icebergs sink ships.

Princess Mentality Syndrome

Weighing all the input from others, and factoring in my personal experience, I’ve concluded that a man will face no female iceberg more destructive than PMS: princess mentality syndrome. PMS makes a woman feel entitled to special rights, privileges, chivalry, and pedestals -- just like a princess. PMS causes men to suffer headaches, cramped lifestyles, bloated expenses, low self-esteem, and bleeding of cash. Her PMS is nonsense and totally avoidable. If you suffer from it, you do so by choice.

What causes PMS? The two-word reflexive response men give to women: “Yes, dear.” In a nutshell, fathers initiate PMS; boyfriends and husbands perpetuate it. Allow me to illustrate PMS in its two basic forms: teenage girl and adult woman. Notice that, in each form, PMS cannot exist without a man’s endorsement. Do either of these scenarios look familiar to you? PMS is an iceberg that will sink your ship. Ignore it at your peril.

The next time you see a man in a TV commercial or TV sitcom being portrayed as a buffoon, remind yourself that such negative male depictions are direct results of millions of men tolerating PMS, by saying “Yes, dear.” Such obsequious male behavior is duplicated and institutionalized everywhere from universities to corporations to newspapers to restaurants to bedrooms to courtrooms -- all the way to the Senate floor, where Joe “Yes, Dear” Biden convinced his colleagues to enact VAWA and reauthorize it three times. The “VAWA Iceberg” -- and all misandrist legislation -- is directly derived from PMS.

The NoNonsense Bottom Line

PMS is the worst iceberg you’ll ever face in your life, because it is insidious and seemingly harmless at first glance. But, most of its mass -- and potential harm -- lies below the surface. Do you see PMS on your horizon? Will you avoid it in time or inevitably crash into it? Or, is it too late to ask?

Visualize Leonardo DiCaprio, playing Jack Dawson, hanging on for dear life at the end of the movie Titanic. He didn’t survive. He froze to death, sacrificing himself for the woman he loved. Did you ever sacrifice yourself for the woman you love, or for a woman you once loved? How’d that work out for you? Did you ever sacrifice yourself for a woman you didn’t love? Was this voluntary or court-ordered? How did that work out for you?

There is a simple cure for PMS. Two words: “No, dear.” That’s how you avoid the iceberg. Do you have the balls to say them? If so, you will change your life, overnight. If, however, you won’t take the PMS cure, you’ll end up like Jack Dawson. You probably won’t freeze to death, literally, but you might emotionally and financially. Will that make you feel any better?

About the Author

Marc H. Rudov is an internationally recognized author of 60+ articles and the books Under the Clitoral Hood: How to Crank Her Engine Without Cash, Booze, or Jumper Cables™ (ISBN 9780974501727), and The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth™ (ISBN 0974501719). Mr. Rudov is a regular guest on Fox News Channel’s Your World with Neil Cavuto.
Rudov’s books, articles, blog, and podcasts are available at TheNoNonsenseMan.com.

[zulaika]

maskiin...he got burned by some b!tch and now he's puking his emotions out.. war naga aamu nacasyahow. PMS kulaha :rol: