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My older sister, just 1 yr older than me was supposed to help and be a bridesmaid for a family friend's daughter..Not actually only a bridesmaid but kind of wedding planner too..as she was helping her with almost everything. The wedding was supposed to be on July year... They basically arranged everything and decided on what hotel to do the wedding reception... etc..

Last night the girl (bride to be) called my sister and said " Miss so and so, did her wedding on "MY HOTEL"..So we have to change it..."...

My sister was like, What? Your Hotel?

The bride to be said " Yes, the one I wanted to do my reception.. How can I do mine when she already did her reception and everyone saw it...?"

My sister was so aggravated that she decided not to be involved with this "sick person" anymore... and if she does that, the brides' family may be offended, but the thing is they( her family) even don't see how their daughter is so arrogant and stupid...

Dadkii walaahay waa waasheen, bal ma iyadaa iska leh hotelka? Faataa dhug badanaa

sheekadaas lama yaabinee waxaan la yaabe qofka adi kaa weeyn oo kula dhashe oo malxiisad noqoneeso hadeeba adi (adoo habar cajuuso ah) kaa weentahe ayadana waaba habar kaloo asaasaqday. get a life you low life habros

Kambuli,

Is it because naagta kalee lagu guursaday hoteelka ayaa ka dhalatay qabiil aanay jecleen tan ay walaashaa u tahay manxiisadda? or is it just, hotelkaa waa la arkay ee mid aan la arag ha la ii kireeyo?

When it comes to weddings the bride has every right to choose what she wants and do cancellation the last minute.

It is a special moment and whatever the reason she has a right to cancell is my opinion. You sister just has to understand this and go along with her!

It is about choice and respect

Faiso,

Tell me your other nick and we will talk...

Sir,

Mucjisada la arkay waxaa weeye, gabadhu waxayba leedahay, mar haddii la arkay hotelkii, waaba iga dhintay! Qoftu waxay iska dhaadhicisey inay tahay wax kale...Beryahan uumbaan lagu dhigan aroose, waan hubaa in marar badan lagu dhigtey aroos...

Laakiin dee walaashay waxay tidhi" Haddii ay sidaa rabtay may waayehee, huteel iibsato ay keligeed leedahay oo aan cid dambana ku dhigan aroos...Waaba dhalaashay walaashay...She just couldn't believe it...

Leila,

You just like to be negative sow maaha? I feel you sis....My sister and any other person should not deal with a lunatic...!

Horta, why do women go bananas when they are about to have a wedding? Mass hysteria and total maddness are symptoms of a badow woman, ilbax women plan their shyt in advance and play it cool. I saw this show on WE a while back called "Bridezilla"....walee women know how to exaggerate the simplest of things.

kambuli
I am not being negative walaal I am just giving you an opinion. What is wrong with that

Also she might be a lunatic because of stress & pressure from the wedding itself so take it easy.

What if that was you? you will want everyone to respect your choice wont you? esp on a special day like this!

kambuli your sister wee isku dhex yaacde!!!!!!!!!! habraha markee 60 gaaraan xaarka iyo kaadidee isku walaaqaan. tell your 60-jir sister to get her kutub and stay at home. GOSH---- habro waalan iga dheh!

Virginia

kambuli dadki madeyen bey iska noqden.
anigu kan aqliga leh so hareysanaya o naag ka diganaya ban la yaba nahay.
wa aqli daro iyo deen daro wahas.

Hyper,

Eeddo waxaan u malaynayaa adduunkan Ilaahay ayaa dadkiisa isku qaybinaya... Weliba ninka guursanayaa waa nin qiimo badan, koley inta aan ka arkay...

lol Kambuli.
i am glad you added intan ka arkay.lol
Kambuli ta sida o fakareysa ileeyn wahan wa aduun
hado ninko dibato o timado osan meet up her expectation so ka tagi meyso?

Why the hell do some naago go apeshit about their wedding day I believe its because its the one time in their life 80% of them will ever get close to looking halfway pretty and centre of attention. An army of people to put on make -up, hours fussing over the right dress the right lighting in the photos blah blah blah all because they are butt ugly. The uglier the bride the more she has to show off and be a demanding brat. Your sis did the right thing telling her to fcuk off

Personally my wedding will be just the meher and I won't even bother on hiring a hall, it will be held in my adeeros house . Fcuk spending money on a lavish wedding I want a BMW and nice big house in Greenwich and I don't need to 'feel special' on my special day, I look hot every day and I feel special every day.

kambuli,

wallahi gabdho badan ayaan arkay oo aan umaleeynaayay inee yihiin wada waxgaradyaal oo aan gadaal ka soo ogaaday inee ahaayeen caqli cunug

kawaran qaarkood waxaa igu soo dhacay "amaad shukaansataa ama guursataa".....Ilaahey baa iga celiyay.

Gedo,

One always needs to be very very careful before he/she decides to tie the knot...