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Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 10:47 am
by Sir-Luggoyo
you grew up with?
You have no blood relation but the two families were neighbors forever, they are closer than any relatives and you grew up thinking like siblings albeit knowing you have no kinship ties.
The two families are still close but now you are all grown up and at a stage where you see each other differently and there is a sense of reticent and reservedness, you could even feel a brewing mutual attraction but neither one of you intends to initiate and open that imminent door.
Would you be brave enough/willing enough to set off and take the first step?
Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 10:49 am
by HELWAA
waar iska guurso intaaney ilkoho ka daadan.......already timihi kaa daate.
Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 10:54 am
by Warsaney
If you're both feeling each other and there is no blood relation, I really don't see why not! Most Xalimos would rather die than take the first step so it's all up to you Sir

Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 10:55 am
by Leila2007
Personally I wont
I feelI know this person enough so it is time to get to know other people!!!!!!!
It is exciting to meet new people plus i can be myself i.e if I am having a bad day and I want to hit the roof then I can do so. But with someone I grew up with they will tend to think they know me enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!which will be more frusting.
But if your are attracted to the person then go ahead and mention it before the train leaves

Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 10:57 am
by FAH1223
dating waa xaram

Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 10:57 am
by Mystic_Angel
lool@sir..waxad ladhacday gabar walasha oo kale ah>>bisinka kinship or not..kadherow qof sas familkada kodhow..bah kaqarabo mell kale qandho fildaran qade...

Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 11:15 am
by Sir-Luggoyo
Walle meeshanaan ka yaabay, haddaad tidhaa waxar baa dhimatay, waxay ku odhan adaa lahaa.
HELWA,
Aniga iyo adiguba waan gabownaye weysada ma isku dhawranaa intaad waxaas iska deysid?
FAH,
Wiil yaroo qooqan baad tahay ma is tidhi. How come you didn't checked the marriage aprt?
Mystic,

Waa maxay habaarka subaxnimada ah yareey? And every topic I post doesn't have to be about me.
If it was my call, I wouldn't hesitate, Somalidu waxay tidhaah "Waxaan taqaan guurso etc etc etc etc" I forgot the last part
Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 11:18 am
by Qatar_isaaq_chick
Depends on if u feel atractted to the person
then why shoulndt u date the person ..
Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 11:20 am
by Mystic_Angel
sorry about the habaar walalo..lakin stay away from miskinta jadhkaga aheed forever saxiib..wa bilah maahmaahe..i expected more from you than that...

Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 11:36 am
by kambuli
Sir,
Muxuu ku leeyahay wadnuhu? That is a question to be asked...
Having said that,..Unless one is afraid to stain the old friendship of the two families...Why not? Go for it...Waa waxaagii wax laguugu dar...Atleast you know what to expect...
Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 11:37 am
by Gifted
Go for it

Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 11:52 am
by Sir-Luggoyo
[quote="kambuli"]Sir,
Muxuu ku leeyahay wadnuhu? That is a question to be asked...

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@ Muxuu ku leeyahay wadnuhu?
Dee wuu i fugleynayaa
Kambuli,
This was all hypothetical like every other topic that I start.
Mystic,
How do you know she is miskiinad? Maybe I am the miskiin one who is in trouble
Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 11:57 am
by kambuli
Sir, quote " This was all hypothetical like every other topic that I start."
I know walaal, maybe I wrote incorrectly but I was responding Hypothetically too...Qofka wadnahiisa ayaan sheegayey...
Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 12:00 pm
by Naaima
rather you say yes or no, allah has other plans for you
Re: Would you marry or date someone
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 12:00 pm
by FAH1223
[quote="Sir-Luggoyo"]
FAH,
Wiil yaroo qooqan baad tahay ma is tidhi. How come you didn't checked the marriage aprt?[/quote]
smh

i saw marriage...but dating sticks out
dating = trying to get laid...xaram