Xalimoos who sleep around are called Sluts

[Morrison]

Last night, I was chatting with this xalimoo on Snet and she asked me this question

[Morrison]

She said, its unjust and double standard that men are called studs

[Gedo_Boy]

studs

replace d with l = stuls

switch position of l & t = sluts

[FAH1223]

girls who sleep around are sluts

guys who sleep around are whores

any better?

[Morrison]

When men get lots of female sex partners, its respected more because getting lots of sex female partners, for men, is a challenge

[Gedo_Boy]

most Somali girls who ask this question are either sleeping around or are looking for an excuse to sleep around or are just trying to have that stigma removed so they can freely sleep around and not worry about being considered loose.

If they feared Allah they wouldn't be looking around to what other people think about sleeping around or not.

These are the same girls oo ka faano getting married and are too cool to be a wife and here they are trying to bring other God-fearing girls into the realm of hoedom.

Tell her to fear Allah and try her best to guard the koochie.

[garowegal]

[quote="Gedo_Boy"]most Somali girls who ask this question are either sleeping around or are looking for an excuse to sleep around or are just trying to have that stigma removed so they can freely sleep around and not worry about being considered loose.

If they feared Allah they wouldn't be looking around to what other people think about sleeping around or not.

These are the same girls oo ka faano getting married and are too cool to be a wife and here they are trying to bring other God-fearing girls into the realm of hoedom.

Tell her to fear Allah and try her best to guard the koochie.[/quote]



Dude your Statement has no logic if you commit zina whether you are a man or a woman you will suffer the same fate in the Eyes of ALLAH (SWT). you somali men with doublestandards are pathetic We somali women should be labeling men who sleep around too maybe that would teach y'all a lesson

[Somaliweyn]

''try her best to guard the koochie.''

Wherever there is demand, there is supply.

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Anyways, besides moral believes, I have nothing against girls that sleep around and tell you that. It is your call to play along or quit.

But these days, alot of girls who sleep around pretend to be good girls when around with new faaraxs that look decent lool. U would think they were reincarnated or something, knowing the past of a girl and seeing her new identity as ''good girl''. Anyways you can get past that shield, and get to know the real her, with the right attidute.

[Gedo_Boy]

garowegal,

calling a man a slut is not going to hurt a man like it will hurt a woman you need to come to grips with that sis!
b/c time and time again women go for the men they consider "popular" & "players" so that won't work and you know it.

There is differences in psychology between man & woman but instead of worrying about stereotypes why don't you do what's right or wrong according to what Allah says is wrong/right?


The man should try to avoid zina not b/c of the benefit/harm of his reputation but because it's wrong.

The woman should try to avoid zina not b/c of the benefit/harm of her reputation but because it's wrong.


How is what I say a double standard?

But if you are looking for a blank check to sleep around let me tell you the way the world works!

Your stock will drop significantly by the time your biological clock starts ticking HARD & want to get married.

[Gedo_Boy]

Somaliweyn,

So are you implying a girl that sleeps around is not a "good girl"?

[Gedo_Boy]

Have you ever seen woman hating on each other?

They are always calling other girls who sleep around "sluts" too. What does that tell you? Even girls consider other girls who open their legs for so many men sluts!

See the world we live in?

That is an ingrained difference in psychology so why don't you try to make men pregnant carry babies while you're at it?

[garowegal]

"But if you are looking for a blank check to sleep around let me tell you the way the world works!"

WTF dude are you ok? just cause someone says dat somali men have doublestandards thats the only thing you can come up with dude if you cant have a discussion in a constructive and mature way why dont you do us the favor and spit your pathetic jargon elsewhere i lose brain cells reading comments like yours.

[Gedo_Boy]

if it's a double standard then all men have double standards and even woman suffer from that doublestandard.

If you are Muslim and you know zina is wrong, it's better to fear God than to fear what you may be called.


A thief only worries about being caught, not that stealing is wrong.

[Somaliweyn]

''Your stock will drop significantly by the time your biological clock starts ticking HARD''


loooooooool.

GB,

the girls that are quick to jump on other girls and accuse her of been slut do it because they fear that their stock will fall too, since they are all connected into one market. Just like oil price decreases when there is a bomb explosion in the middle east.

[Warsaney]

LOL@ Gedo Boy

Dude you're turning into the next Mukhtar ma istidhi?? Baryahan "hoe this, slut that" waad ka dhaman ladahay...Hablaha ka qalee walaal, let ALLAH(SWT) deal with them.

p.s This be your Qaldaan friend ;)