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Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:39 pm
by HELWAA
salaam
If you are man would you let ur mom hook you up with a girl?
I have a cousin who is almost 30 and his mom is worried for him because he is not married,you cant imagin how mony girls she found for him....but he is not ready to get married yet.
Why Do parents interfere in their mature childrens lives.?
He is well educated and with good manners mashallah.So he is not A ZINA MAN.
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:44 pm
by Gifted
Yes...if I was a man ofcourse....I would consider it...but I wouldn't make anything official until I was sure about the person. I guess parents interfere with their grown kids lives because in their eyes you'll always be a child...mar walba waliidka weey naga qibrid badanyahiin...and they are always looking out for our best interest.
What would you choose?...habar ama duco?
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:45 pm
by Mystic_Angel
They want carur for him....
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:48 pm
by HELWAA
Gifted you are right laakin if the person is not ready he cant be forced.
angel......men is not like women ...they can have children at age 90 walaal.
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:54 pm
by Gatspy
yes please, i'll take two of those
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:56 pm
by The-Screw
not this again, i think this is one of the most talked about topics in Somalinet history, i'm tired of repeating myself! go look in the archives for my answer!
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:58 pm
by HELWAA
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:02 pm
by The-Screw
what are you doing watching little kids?
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:02 pm
by sadeboi
My parents do not say marry this girl or that, but they do reccommend girls "I should talk to"...they say gabartaas soo fiiri oo barro...we think she is nice...but they will never say you have to marry this girl...and I do talk to them and see what they are about...I mean what would I lose right?
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:03 pm
by HELWAA
screw
SMART move!
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:03 pm
by Mystic_Angel
I understand that walal helwa...nimanka dhalidoda kuma xidhna their age...but I just assumed since your aunt wanted your cousin to settle down, she wanted to see his kids...it is ok for parents to feel that way towards their grown kids, specially when they are afraid of settling down on their own....waxan xasusta mar someone close to me walidked baren some dhagax magac un wata oo boring ah...lol so parents always aren't the best choice makers... i think he should choose whome ever he pleases....
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:04 pm
by The_Emperior5
why not but i like to look for ,my self and i have found my honey, and we are happy together mashalllah
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:06 pm
by HELWAA
[quote="Mystic_Angel"]I understand that walal helwa...nimanka dhalidoda kuma xidhna their age...but I just assumed since your aunt wanted your cousin to settle down, she wanted to see his kids...it is ok for parents to feel that way towards their grown kids, specially when they are afraid of settling down on their own....waxan xasusta mar someone close to me walidked baren some dhagax magac un wata oo boring ah...lol so parents always aren't the best choice makers... i think he should choose whome ever he pleases....[/quote]
exactly my point walaal.......he should have the choice.Ilayen isaga ayaa qofkan la nolaaniye.
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:08 pm
by *Nobleman*
my mom often make hints, suggestions etc. But my idea of a good wife is different from my moms.
Re: Arranged marriges
Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 3:09 pm
by HELWAA
[quote="The_Emperior5"]why not but i like to look for ,my self and i have found my honey, and we are happy together mashalllah[/quote]
Naga daa beenta yaa akhi.....if you had someone you would't be here walle.