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The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:41 pm
by Hard-Rock
I need only those of you that are married or are in the process of marrying to answer me these bellow questions:
1. Why did you decided to get married?
2. Why are the benefits of being married a side from the Tax credit?
3. Now that you are married, do you think getting hitched was worth loosing all the freedom?
I want to know only the positive aspects of marriage, I know all the negative things which made me stay single since the underground railroad. LOL.
Gedo-Boy, Chip-in your influence on popping the question.
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:42 pm
by SummerRain
IF you are into arranged marriages, mid OG ah oo reer Isxaaq ah ba ku hayaa. Maxaa ka qaabta?
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:43 pm
by Koronto91
Ismahaneey,
Waa lagu soo doontay hadal ah baa i soo garay, would you care to comment?
Hard Rock,
Touchy issue for me, sxb...I can't really help you out.
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:44 pm
by PINK_BUNNY
1. The time came.
2. You have someone and a family.
3. There is nothing like freedom, I somehow feel trapped but having a family is worth giving up small things.
Thats pretty much what it's like........
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:45 pm
by Muktaaar
war stay single
soon u gonna be reporting ur whereabouts to ur wify
lose all of ur freedom
no more ESPN &sport center
she will ask u to cuddle with her thru out the nite
i think the only good thing about marriage is relgion wise and the anywhere anytime ready kooochie...
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:50 pm
by 1nemansquad
I'm getting married because it's time to settle down, start a my own empire (family) and kids.
Benefits, most importantly Allah (swt) will be pleased with you.
Can't answer the last one.
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:50 pm
by SummerRain
Koronta, belo ku qarxisey loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:53 pm
by Hard-Rock
lol@Ismahan/Mid OG ah oo reer isaaqa......
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:54 pm
by Hard-Rock
I'm not into marriage but I keep on loosing dimes over this epidemic marriage influenza. Somali chicks often lose patience after couple years once they find out I have no interest in getting married.
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:55 pm
by Hard-Rock
lol@Muk, I hear u man but I want to hear the possitive side.....
Pinny, are you married?
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:56 pm
by Hard-Rock
1nemansquad,
Dude, I hate kids.
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 9:00 pm
by 1nemansquad
[quote="Hard-Rock"]1nemansquad,
Dude, I hate kids.[/quote]
Ok, What do you hate about them?
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 9:03 pm
by PINK_BUNNY
Yes, I'm married. I'll be great help to you in this important transition in your life. I feel for you cause your right most girls don't want to date a guy more than 5 yrs without the relationship getting to a serious level. However there is no need to rush if you're attending Uni. or can't provide for a family. The most important thing is to be able to have a stable home environment, and there are enough girls to go around if you're losing your g/f's over this issue.
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 9:04 pm
by Hard-Rock
1NeMan,
Everything about kids, they require lots of time, they are forever responsibility. They are liability, the list goes on. Plus, I was a bad kid and I'm afraid I will have a clone of me lool
Re: The Married & soon to be Wed folks, please advise!
Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 9:08 pm
by Hard-Rock
Pinny,
My currently girlfriend and I finished school yrs ago. We are both employed but thats beside the point. Marriage to me is scary cloud......