Submissive Vs. Opinionated Women?

Koronto91 · Post by **Koronto91** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:03 am

Our society has changed over the decades. We've imported many cultures and religious practices, which affected our societal norms and the role of women.

Which one? A submissive woman who dares not even bat her eye lashes at her man or a woman who isn't afraid to speak her mind?

xoogSADE14 · Post by **xoogSADE14** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:04 am

A combination of both is good sxb. Both extremes will drive you insane.

Post by **AbdiWahab252** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:05 am

Koronto:

Like xoogSade said a balance.

My wifey should be opinionated enough to give me her advice and submissive enough to let me have the last word.

Leila2007 · Post by **Leila2007** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:06 am

I think both. You will have to be submissive to some extent and listen to what he is saying but if you think something is not right then you will need to say something.It is ok to be opinionated but as long as you repect other people's (i.e your husband's) opinion!

Naaima · Post by **Naaima** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:07 am

Salam alaikum

i agree with above posts

zulaika · Post by **zulaika** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:17 am

just be passive aggressive....it takes care of both.

Post by **Basra-** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:19 am

[quote="xoogSADE14"]A combination of both is good sxb. Both extremes will drive you insane.[/quote]

loooooooooooooooooooooooooool I like this answer! LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

Talooow how does an extremely submissive woman drive u insane???? LOOOOOOOL I thought some really macho men really appreciate extreme submissiveness? LOOOL

Koronto--forget that-- what do u want?

Post by **The-Screw** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:31 am

[quote="xoogSADE14"]A combination of both is good sxb. Both extremes will drive you insane.[/quote]

right on.

Gifted · Post by **Gifted** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 11:48 am

neutral is the way to go!!!

Muktaaar · Post by **Muktaaar** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 11:55 am

i want a submsssive gurl prerfrably def 2

Gedo_Boy · Post by **Gedo_Boy** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 12:09 pm

A women should be able to speak her mind to her husband and not hide any feelings from him.

However, she should obey him if his actions are in accordance with diinta.

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 12:18 pm

I have the same opinion as Xoog

Marriage is not about who is stronger or who would have the last say etc If I were a man I would prefer to have a women who can be dependent if necessary! A strong women who can take care of the family if God forbid something happens.

To be strong does not mean to be loud or to show off with other people that you are giving orders to your husband etc...But to be able to reach good decisions for your family...I hate naagaha maydka ah ee yidhaahda " Daahi dariishadda aan xidhi lahaa ee abow ii imow"

Respect from both sides is vital...

Gedo_Boy · Post by **Gedo_Boy** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 12:23 pm

" Daahi dariishadda aan xidhi lahaa ee abow ii imow"

kambuli what does that mean?

AyeeyoH · Post by **AyeeyoH** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 12:24 pm

loooooooooool kambuli...dee ma daahba kaliyga xidhi karta walaal...so inuu qof kale dhinaca kale kola qabto so mahaa.Afcourse she needs his help.Ma jiraanka ayey oo yeedhata.Waxaasi ceeb maaha walaal.

Post by **Basra-** » Thu Jan 17, 2008 12:33 pm

[quote="kambuli"]

Respect from both sides is vital...[/quote]

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