salaama calaykum brothers and sisters

[stakiin]

i have had a huge dispute with a brother last about woman in islam , he is was arguing that women are not allowed to leave their house in islam , not even to work and all that , and i told how come Khadija was rich woman before she married the rasuul calayhi salaam . so what do u guys think of this ?

[1_londoner]

w/salam......actully women are allowed to leave their house..if they wanna work its up to to them. The husband may feel he would like to be the one to provide 4 the wife and thats kool, but not allowing them to leave the house at all is a bit dumb.

[zulaika]

let's be realistic horta... i'd like to see women actually take up this offer..and i mean to its fullest. come on...what man can handle that bal ha la'iswaydiiyee. if she never leaves the house, not even to throw out the trash..and have him take the kids to school, go grocery shopping, go to work and every other errands that can come to mind.. can he handle it? walahi, i'd love to be put under such mandate...wallee in uu qafiifi lahaa baan shaki ku jidhin.. if he ever told me to do this, coz i will take up on his offer to the last letter. LOL.

[Gedo_Boy]

she must be able to leave the house and do things for herself & her family.

[WasteMan]

She cant work or leave the house without the husbands permission

and khadija AUN used 2 work till the prophet saws became the massenger

[zulaika]

[quote="Gedo_Boy"]she must be able to leave the house and do things for herself & her family.[/quote]

gedo,

so u do agree on the utter absurdness with the "never leave the house" notion eh? i mean i am not exactly knocking it for those with the means to achieve it..employ where applicable per se.. laakin' it cannot be universally applied and i think anything short of the blanket application for all has less to do with the teachings of our prophet and more with cultural dictations. agree?

[Naaima]

Salam alaikum

in islam women are allowed to leave their homes if it is necessary and by permission of their husbands..and actually naagta nikeeda can forbid her to leave the home lol..and can't allow someone into guriga ninkeda if he is opposed..........