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salaama calaykum brothers and sisters
Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 1:34 pm
by stakiin
i have had a huge dispute with a brother last about woman in islam , he is was arguing that women are not allowed to leave their house in islam , not even to work and all that , and i told how come Khadija was rich woman before she married the rasuul calayhi salaam . so what do u guys think of this ?
Re: salaama calaykum brothers and sisters
Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 4:28 pm
by 1_londoner
w/salam......actully women are allowed to leave their house..if they wanna work its up to to them. The husband may feel he would like to be the one to provide 4 the wife and thats kool, but not allowing them to leave the house at all is a bit dumb.
Re: salaama calaykum brothers and sisters
Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 3:13 pm
by zulaika
let's be realistic horta... i'd like to see women actually take up this offer..and i mean to its fullest. come on...what man can handle that bal ha la'iswaydiiyee. if she never leaves the house, not even to throw out the trash..and have him take the kids to school, go grocery shopping, go to work and every other errands that can come to mind.. can he handle it? walahi, i'd love to be put under such mandate...wallee in uu qafiifi lahaa baan shaki ku jidhin.. if he ever told me to do this, coz i will take up on his offer to the last letter. LOL.
Re: salaama calaykum brothers and sisters
Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 3:25 pm
by Gedo_Boy
she must be able to leave the house and do things for herself & her family.
Re: salaama calaykum brothers and sisters
Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 3:31 pm
by WasteMan
She cant work or leave the house without the husbands permission
and khadija AUN used 2 work till the prophet saws became the massenger
Re: salaama calaykum brothers and sisters
Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 3:33 pm
by zulaika
[quote="Gedo_Boy"]she must be able to leave the house and do things for herself & her family.[/quote]
gedo,
so u do agree on the utter absurdness with the "never leave the house" notion eh? i mean i am not exactly knocking it for those with the means to achieve it..employ where applicable per se.. laakin' it cannot be universally applied and i think anything short of the blanket application for all has less to do with the teachings of our prophet and more with cultural dictations. agree?
Re: salaama calaykum brothers and sisters
Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 3:38 pm
by Naaima
Salam alaikum
in islam women are allowed to leave their homes if it is necessary and by permission of their husbands..and actually naagta nikeeda can forbid her to leave the home lol..and can't allow someone into guriga ninkeda if he is opposed..........