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dadka diinta si fiican u yaqaana, i need your help...on dealing with neighbors

i have this really annoying neighbor...she appears nice and all and greets well, but i found out in ey tahey xanleey.. like she likes to report bad things about u. so i am not neighborly with her anymore. not that i have anything to hide, but when someone is waiting for faults its another thing..anyways, my mom tells me that dariska waa waajib to maintain a good relationship with them. i hope i'm not in dambi by totally cutting off this xalimo and even refusing to give her things she comes to borrow...in a civil way of course, like oh sorry i don't have that, or i'm just about to step out.

love thy neighbor!

My last Somali neighbors and I chewed khat together and discussed politics even though we disagreed 99% of the time.

Don't its just a waste of time to worry about what other ppl say about you or think of you, just be good to them and they will return it back. most of the time ppl things others are saying stuff about them -when they aren't -so just move on.

Zulaika,

Just tell her your husband doesn't like you giving stuff out.

"like she likes to report bad things about u"

This calls for questioning.

But in fairness to you..we all do have neibours..and there is this woman who comes to my App. everyday asking for cigarettes and now her daughter joined the campaign..but at least the girl is young and..lol

But I dont hate them..I just find the mother annoying.

fah,

i can't...not this one. lol.

abdi,

i can't lie dee, he's too nice and would probably contradict me next time she comes around.lol. and as for your neighbor... to disagree is one thing but to act all nicely and then spread nonsense about someone is another thing. besides, ya'll are prolly chewing that hallucinogens when you're disagreeing and forget all about it when u gain back your sobriety..lol. sorry love.

cawar,

you're fishing from an empty pond dear, drop those questions waryaa. lol.

Trust your intuition and don't let your guard down with her.

Walaal the problem is ...naagaha soomalido waa dhib meeran...adiga uun bay xumaantaada ka shaqayneyaan.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: By God, he does not believe! By God, he does not believe! By God, he does not believe! When asked who he was referring to, the Prophet replied: That person whose neighbor does not feel safe from his evil." - Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 8, Hadith 45

and this onther hadith
Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, He who believes in Allah and the Last Day let him not harm his neighbour; and he who believes in Allah and the Last Day let him show hospitality to his guest; and he who believes in Allah and the Last Day let him speak good or remain silent.
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

dad diin yaqaan uma baahnid as you are dealing with it as it should be.

xalkaa kaga hay oo ha ka neefin wecelada 'Lady-Zulaika' for granted uu qaadatay...lol

Zulaika,

What are you doing that is being reported ?

Do you keep a messy house ? Do you not cook for your husband ?

TELL her that u have MOVED from SEVERAL NEIGBOURS because there were many ppl who do XAN.

Right on Biko , waxa diin yaqaan isku sheega golaha , bal eeg hadaladooda !!
Ina Lilah waa Ina Ileehi rajicuun , Ilahow weliga aqliga ha inaga qaadin baa lagu ducaysta!!

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]My last Somali neighbors and I chewed khat together and discussed politics even though we disagreed 99% of the time.[/quote]


LOOOOL@99% of the time...


i bet the mirqaan was out of this world?... better than shewing with people who agree with everything you say and nacamle...

waad iga qoslisay walaahi.

Helwa manta maa waxaad kuu hadasho ayaad garan weydey maxaa issaq oo dhan
xaasid kaa dhigey nayaa soomaali kale kama duwaana ee isla xishood