Ladies N Gents, how do u show some1 u like them??

[suga_n_spice]

BALOO

phone calls, text messages, gifts, flirtin??? N what if it's long distance??

[Leila2007]

what is the meaning of the word BALOO and why do you use it all the time?

[Spookie]

I pinch their cheeks.


<< goes to pinch Gifted's rosy cheeks.

[suga_n_spice]

BALOO

leila, it's stuck with me dear, now answer the question if u don't mind, ur input is needed

spookie, what if she doesn't want u to touch her?? what then??

[AbdiWahab252]

Suga,

Just go ahead and tell them how you feel.

The direct approach is the best way. If they don't feel the same way, you move on.

If its LD, I would get a nice gift such as sending flowers to her office or making a surprise visit (LOL - its hilarious calling from outside their home and asking them to come down.)

[Spookie]

Then I violate her rights and still touch her.

[Daanyeer]

Baloo,

TEXT...is the BEST....in that way u GIVE the PERSON a time to REACT.



BTW ..leyla is too YOUNG in S'net VILLAGE to know 'BALOO'

[suga_n_spice]

BALOO

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Suga,

Just go ahead and tell them how you feel.

The direct approach is the best way. If they don't feel the same way, you move on.

If its LD, I would get a nice gift such as sending flowers to her office or making a surprise visit (LOL - its hilarious calling from outside their home and asking them to come down.)[/quote]

abdi, ma dear. think of a typical somali couple. gabdhaha soomaalida waay kibir badaan yihiin. so how do u determine if a gal is into u?? lool N what if she doesn't have an office and lives with her parents??

spookie, that's sexual harassment. lool. good luck gettin a lady though ;) especially a somali 1

[suga_n_spice]

BALOO

[quote="Daanyeer"]Baloo,

TEXT...is the BEST....in that way u GIVE the PERSON a time to REACT.



BTW ..leyla is too YOUNG in S'net VILLAGE to know 'BALOO'[/quote]

so, u would text her and say "abaayo waan ka helay, maxaad ka qabtaa hadaan wada hadalnoo" something like that?? (where would u get her #)

[AbdiWahab252]

Suga,

Ur too sweet.

I would do a simple test. I would disappear for a few days and see if she calls me. If I don't hear from her, I know she is not interested.

I would also measure how often she communicates with me & who communicates more often. If its a majority of me contacting or emailing, then i know she ain't that interested in me, if its 50% or more she is. I would also check to see how long we communicate. It is a quick 10 minute hello or a longer conversation.

p.s. I avoid unemployed Xalimos

[Shirib]

Get the number first, and call and text, flirt with em they should get the idea, then tell em.

[Daanyeer]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Suga,

Ur too sweet.

I would do a simple test. I would disappear for a few days and see if she calls me. If I don't hear from her, I know she is not interested.

I would also measure how often she communicates with me & who communicates more often. If its a majority of me contacting or emailing, then i know she ain't that interested in me, if its 50% or more she is. I would also check to see how long we communicate. It is a quick 10 minute hello or a longer conversation.

p.s. I avoid unemployed Xalimos[/quote]

Abdi,

It's good TRICK and SMART from u. Daanyeer has ROUGH CHEST but he is not XAASID. i SALUTE u !!!!!!

[suga_n_spice]

BALOO

abdi, it's funny u say that. because gabdhaheenan we want the man to constantly communicate with us. we want him to call all the time N text all the time that's our way of findin out how much he wants to b with us. don't get us wrong because we're on the other end anticipatin and are paranoid with our phones. even though we're dyin to pick up, we still want u to call back again. loool so in conclusion, we like u, but we want to contact u very little. what does that mean to u?? because u said whose doin what and how much right??

Shirib, what if she doesn't want to give u her # but she likes u back??

[AbdiWahab252]

Suga,

I actually don't bother with that nonsense of "guy calling and communicating all the time" If she can't spare some time to call and chat especially if she is long distance, how are things supposed to work. I have a simple rule: communicate 3 times & never call again if I never hear from her.

I am direct to women. If I like you, I will tell you. If I don't like you anymore, you will be the first to know. Plus I never cheat because I am always honest about how I feel and if I am uncomfortable, I terminate the relationship.

Danyeer,

U need to be tough to be kind. If you don't set your expectations early on, you are doing her a disservice because she will not know your limits which leads you to becoming upset and making a drastic choice

[Shirib]

Why on earth would she not wanna give me her phone number, is she like old school hella don't wanna talk to guys but like them