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....For the way their childrens bad behaviour? i.e killin people, or shottin - WATEVa!!!

I PERSONALLY THINK IT IS ALL THE WAALIDS FAULTS because THEY (CHILDREN) SHOULD fear their parents even more with their RUBB (swt)

So if your child turns out to be a lil hoodrat- i.e. shottin....surrounded by people who he claims are 'friends' yet who happen to be 5-10 years older than him then you know you have raised a lil waste cadet lol well not in those terms bt yehh

u cant blame the parents for their childrens mistakes...........take for example the fact that Allah on judgement day will judge u and only u for ur sins............we as humans have been made 2 make mistakes and wateva..........but at the end of the day wen a kid hits puberty they have their own minds and they then begin 2 do as they pls.

I have a dad which im scared of, respect and luv,
but that doesn't stop me from doing certain things behind his back

my mum begs and pleads wiv me 2 cover up, but i dont..................again this is my fault

walaalo blame the environment they grow up in and the surroundings and most importnantly themselves..............rather than the parents....even tho they still have a big role 2 play in their childs upbringing!!

no u cnt blame parents because they tel u wat 2 do n if u chose not 2 listen 2 dem den dats u
it wud be more understable if u said the way they became could reflect on our behaviour if ur father chose n smokes n hardly at yard more likely 2 join dem but thats all up 2 u cos every soul knw right from wrng

im with both the above 2
if ure parents grew up inda east and they brought u up the best they can while stil tryna imbrace their way of thinking into the western world .. its not their fault .. its a cruel world ...
its 2 worlds clashing .. theirs and ours ... we got it easy and we dont realise ..
in our country 14 yr olds got families ... here 14 yr olds got more share of kibir than any adult ive come across ..

If the parents neglect the kids they take the blame

[quote="Suga_lumps"]u cant blame the parents for their childrens mistakes...........take for example the fact that Allah on judgement day will judge u and only u for ur sins............we as humans have been made 2 make mistakes and wateva..........but at the end of the day wen a kid hits puberty they have their own minds and they then begin 2 do as they pls.

I have a dad which im scared of, respect and luv,
but that doesn't stop me from doing certain things behind his back

my mum begs and pleads wiv me 2 cover up, but i dont..................again this is my fault

walaalo blame the environment they grow up in and the surroundings and most importnantly themselves..............rather than the parents....even tho they still have a big role 2 play in their childs upbringing!![/quote]

Letting ur kids do haram things like not wearing hijab is a sin--ur parents will share the sin