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Denied anything b/c of your hijaab?

Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:07 pm
by Dhers
Asalamu alaykum, this goes mostly for the sisters {but brothers can join in too}. Have anyone of you been denied entrance to a country, coffee shop, a job, or anything else because you observe the full hijaab? What about the niqab?

I'm asking this because I was recently watching a program on Primetime about a Muslim woman being denied to be a customer at a bakery because she was wearing the hijaab (this was set up by the way, both are actors). The man was making very racist statements and the overwhelming majority did nothing about it, 6 people stepped in, and 3 people agreed with him.

For me, I've been called a terrorist, raghead, thick-eared (that doesn't make sense) and a tent-wearer because I decide to cover myself properly for Allah. It really does not bring my imaan down, but for some sisters it really does. Some even decide to take off the hijab after that because it's just too much for them to handle. :-(

So I'd like to hear your experiences about this, as discriminatory occurences have been happening to me very recently. Jazakallah khair in advance.

Re: Denied anything b/c of your hijaab?

Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:09 pm
by Monk-of-Mogadishu
i wanted to play on my school's varsity track team when I was 14. i was denied, because my coach said that my hijaab would create resistance to the wind and slow me down.

what should I have done, because that day, I quit school sports.

Re: Denied anything b/c of your hijaab?

Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:11 pm
by Dhers
You shouldn't have given up aww, Allah has something in store for you. If you give up something for Allah, then he will give you something better than what you've given up in return (saheeh hadith).

Re: Denied anything b/c of your hijaab?

Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:12 pm
by Monk-of-Mogadishu
thank you very much, sister.

Re: Denied anything b/c of your hijaab?

Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:13 pm
by 1_londoner
[quote="Monk-of-Mogadishu"]i wanted to play on my school's varsity track team when I was 14. i was denied, because my coach said that my hijaab would create resistance to the wind and slow me down.

what should I have done, because that day, I quit school sports.[/quote]

LoOoOL
Dhers... walalo his lying...monk is a dude.......

Re: Denied anything b/c of your hijaab?

Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:14 pm
by Dhers
Really? Subhan Allah, I'm so gullable. :(

Re: Denied anything b/c of your hijaab?

Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:18 pm
by Monk-of-Mogadishu
1_Londoner,

i never said i was female, i just wore a hijaab in high school. don't ever call me a liar.

Re: Denied anything b/c of your hijaab?

Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:19 pm
by Gifted
[quote="Monk-of-Mogadishu"]1_Londoner,

i never said i was female, i just wore a hijaab in high school. don't ever call me a liar.[/quote]

looooooooooooooooooooooool...I've actually seen a dude wearing a headscarf..I think he was terribly confused

Re: Denied anything b/c of your hijaab?

Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:20 pm
by 1_londoner
LoOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooL....Right.....

Re: Denied anything b/c of your hijaab?

Posted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 2:28 pm
by Muktaaar
this somali chick commited suicide few days in west london

aparently she was teased in school mainly because of her Hijaab