My dear friends ..

[SahanGalbeed]

Shalay sidaan halkan u fadhiyay oon kolba qof ugu hanjabayay baan mid aan saxiib nahay i yidhi " meeting" baan ku socda ee wax isoo raaca ayaan raba , ina keen !! Halkii baynu qabanay , anigoona war u hayn wax alle waxa meesha la isugu yimid . Waxooga qaxwa ayaynu iska yara shubanay , oo waynu iska fadhiisanay markaana .The meeting was sponsored by the Center for Relationship Abuse Awareness . LOL.
I was shocked at first , I was like what the fuc.k am I doing here , I've never abused anybody ...I mean... I'm so better than this.
Shaydan ka markaan iska yara naaray, baan is idhi haddeena , kolleyba hadda meel u ma socotid ee bal iska dhagayso.
Ninkii baa yidhi " what's the primary reason for abuse in any relationship?"--> control!!
@ that point I started taking notes on the IMPACT of verbal abuse on a person's overall well being and happiness .

[Leila2007]

LOOOOOL

Verbal abuse is as bad as physical abuse and some people seem to be experts in this. I wonder what the policy of this form of abuse in somalinet is!

[HELWAA]

Leila

waa runta...the proof is the topic starter.

[SahanGalbeed]

Markaa wuxu yidhi ninkii
A woman who is experiencing verbal and emotional abuse might feel the following
1/A distrust of her spontaneity
2/A loss of enthusiasm
3/ A concern that something is wrong with her & loss of self confidence
4/An anxiety or fear of being crazy
5/ A desire not to be the way she is
etc..ect..ect..

Markaasan gacantii baan kor u taago , su'al baan waydiyay ninki
" Can you be a more specific on No 4 ? what do you mean by ..uuh.. fear of being crazy?" baan ku idhi .

"Ok" buu yidhi ...
" Very hypothetical of course ...but let's take ..uuh ..the case of this very respected member of the community ..everybody likes him and think he is a great guy . Behind closed door s though ..that guy is an abusive person .. and a control freak . Now let's say the person on the receiving end of the abuse{ the woman} goes out to the community in order to seek help and she is told " Alla miyaad waalantahay dee , Ina Baxar nin aad u wanaagsan weeye ..blablabla"


So... I apologize to any of the respectable ladies I might've verbally abused here .
I can name names , I ain't scared .

[Leila2007]

LOOOOL

You two have to make up. I will be the peace maker because it pains me to see you two not getting along.

Inaapti

Inantaa raaligeli! Comeon!

[HELWAA]

Leila

Meshan waxa jira arin kale oo la yeraah control freak ....ma ii fahantey habaryar.

[SahanGalbeed]

Leila , you are right !!
2 persons baan "abuse due to control issue " ula galay , dhegaha na qaylo kaga qaaday.
Waa Lil cutie , iyo Helwaa.
I apologize before everybody , insha Allah na , waxaan ku noqonayo ma' a ha !!

I am a reformed man !! lol

[Gifted]

People that abuse others are disgusting. If anyone's in that type of situation they should leave it as soon as possible.

[Sir-Luggoyo]

Baxarow,

Looooooooooool Oo waxaan ku idhi maantana ma tanaad inoo keentay? Adeer gaalada hadalkooga intaad iska dayso, the only language a Xaliimo will understand is Laad iyo Feedh Jilib ee ninyahow intaad nacnacda naga deysid, hanaga galaafan hablahayaga, waxay yaqaanaan dhaqankii hooyadeed iyo ayeydeed lagu soo qabi jiraye

[nafisa.bush]

lol sahan the hypocrate Farax cheerleader if you're reformed 'man' then I'm Mother Theresa...

[SahanGalbeed]

Noloshan iyo adduunkan mar alle iyo markaad wanaag ku dhaqaaq is tidhado ba , ^ ba kolba hud kaaga so baxaya .
Waa laga cawdubilaysta , looma na joojiyo !

[Leila2007]

Inaabt I am glad you finally apologised to Helwaa even though it took you a course to realised that LOOOOL.

Helwaa

I hope you find it in your heart to accept his apology!

[HELWAA]

That was not a real apology Leila....Waa bahal feedh iyo laad oo kuu soo qoray...I demand a public apology in A HELWAAS DEDICATED THREAD.

[Leila2007]

LOOOOL

Naa hedhee you are hard to please dee!

[HELWAA]

Leila

Come one after what he did to me i deserve more then that.