Child Molestation - Why is this considered social taboo?
Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 4:21 pm
I have a question, somalida maxaysan kaga hadlin Rape and Molestation?
Waxa ka sii daran, markii gabadh tiraah such and such did this to me, iyadaa la oranayaa nayaa "Sharmuuto" ba tahay, adiga raadsaday hebel iyo hebel, like that's her fault! if a grown man rapes a little girl, how is that her fault?
My story is, I was molested at age 9, ninka i molest gareeyey waa nin qaraabo aan ahayn oo nala dagnaa. For two years wuu i molest garayneyey cidna uma aan sheegin. Why didn't I tell anyone? I don't know but I can tell you, though I don't want to get into the details, but strangly I remember the experience as somewhat peaceful, not painful and actualy pleasureable though it sounds absalutely aweful, I can't tell you why I felt the way I felt about him. But this doesn't make it right. What worries the most is, I know in ay jiraan gabdho yar yar oo la molest gareeyo everyday aana haysan cid ay u sheegtaan.
Maxaa inoo diiday in aan ka hadalno arrintan in public? Maxaa inoo diiday in aan samayno "Sexual Abuse And Child Molestation Awarness Trainings" among somalis. Maxaa inoo diiday inaan caruurteena kala hadalno Sex? Maxaa inoo diiday inaan caruurteen open u noqono, aan ka hadalno important keys ku saabsan sex and std, and so forth?
I'm married now, I have a handsome, drop dead gorgeous husband who loves me and our children. We have two beautiful children. Caruurtayda iyo aniga aad baan close u nahay wax walbana waan kala hadlaa noloshooda ku saabsan.
Anyway, I eagerly await your queries and feedbacks!
Waxa ka sii daran, markii gabadh tiraah such and such did this to me, iyadaa la oranayaa nayaa "Sharmuuto" ba tahay, adiga raadsaday hebel iyo hebel, like that's her fault! if a grown man rapes a little girl, how is that her fault?
My story is, I was molested at age 9, ninka i molest gareeyey waa nin qaraabo aan ahayn oo nala dagnaa. For two years wuu i molest garayneyey cidna uma aan sheegin. Why didn't I tell anyone? I don't know but I can tell you, though I don't want to get into the details, but strangly I remember the experience as somewhat peaceful, not painful and actualy pleasureable though it sounds absalutely aweful, I can't tell you why I felt the way I felt about him. But this doesn't make it right. What worries the most is, I know in ay jiraan gabdho yar yar oo la molest gareeyo everyday aana haysan cid ay u sheegtaan.
Maxaa inoo diiday in aan ka hadalno arrintan in public? Maxaa inoo diiday in aan samayno "Sexual Abuse And Child Molestation Awarness Trainings" among somalis. Maxaa inoo diiday inaan caruurteena kala hadalno Sex? Maxaa inoo diiday inaan caruurteen open u noqono, aan ka hadalno important keys ku saabsan sex and std, and so forth?
I'm married now, I have a handsome, drop dead gorgeous husband who loves me and our children. We have two beautiful children. Caruurtayda iyo aniga aad baan close u nahay wax walbana waan kala hadlaa noloshooda ku saabsan.
Anyway, I eagerly await your queries and feedbacks!