I pray to Allah that I don't live to get this phone call.

[1nemansquad]

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[Advo]

That day will come sxb..........we just have to be prepared for it, I have a friend that lost his mom in 5th grade, it fuked him up mentally even to this day, he doesnt wanna admit it, but it will sure be one sad day.

[1nemansquad]

I know that day will come and it can't be avoided but for my own selfish reasons I wish to not be around when it comes, I don't think I could handle it.

Lyrics in English.

I will return oh mother
And kiss your chaste head
And supress (blame?) my desires
And taste the scent of your blessings
Besmirch in the richness of your feet
my cheek when I meet you
Water the soil with my tears
Happy that you are alive

How many nights did you stay up late
So that I could sleep to my content?
And how many times did you thirst
So you could quench my thirst with your tenderness?
And one day I was ill, I do not forget
The tears from you that were like the rain
And your eyes which stayed awake
fearing that I may be in danger
And the day we parted at dawn
and Oh what a harsh dawn that was
Words cannot explain what
I felt when I abandoned you
And you told me things which I still
remember throughout my life
"You will never find a heart
more tender towards you than mine"
"You will never find a heart
more tender towards you than mine"

obedience to you, oh want of my life..
[is what] the God of existence has instructed me to do.
Your content is the secret of my success
And my love of you is the secret of my beleif
And the sincerety of your prayer [for me]..
has resolved my misfortunes and my sadness
My love towards you..
no human being loves anything like it
You are the beating of my heart
And you are what lights my vision
And you are the tune on my lips
My problems cease when I see your face
To you I do return oh mother
Tomorrow I rest from my journey
And a second age will begin for me
and the branches will blossom with flowers

[1nemansquad]

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[Brav3Heart]

Remember this?

[Gamadid.]

Imagine calling your mom and her cell keeps ringing, instead of her answering the phone to speak with you, someone else answers and tells you that your mom is here sleeping peacefully but they will wake her for you, you agree and hold the phone to your ear, after the person who is waking her up fails several attempts to wake her up, they scream and start to cry, when your heart comes to your mouth wondering what happened, the person picks up the phone they dropped and tells you your mom is dead and she is not moving an inch. Nobody knew she died in her sleep and everybody found out about her death because of your call, even those who spent time with her in the room, had no clue her life slipped away peacefully without making a single noise. The fact that the mother was healthy and had no sickness adds to the shock.

Just imagine that, because that happened for real and I happen to know who that has happened to. He tries to forget about the tragic event and still thinks his mother may have been buried alive. Of course that is not true, but the blow of the tragic news which unfolded over the phone, surely has had its effect. To what extent Allah knows.

It is one of those events that without deep faith and understanding that to Allah we all belong and to him we return, and that Allah is the sole owner of what he has given and gives, just as he owns what he takes back from us whichw as given to us out of his kindness and grace, the person might lose their mind.

There is no one like Hooyo.

If that had happened to you, how would you feel?

The positive aspect to such deaths where the parents die before thier sons and daughters, is when the sons/daughters are good muslims who pray for their dead parents and ask God to forgive them on their behalf, pay charity on their behalf and do good deeds on their behalf. Then their tragic death isn't tragic and both the dead parents and the people they left behind benefit.

Still, no amount of rationalization can codify the pain one feels upon losing a parent.

[BABYGIRL123]

I feel like crying when i think about it but the day is coming ever closer and my heart hurts for children with no mothers, mother is life and the air you breath, respect and obey your parents so that god can be merciful on you.

[King-of-Awdal]

This may sound weird but i really Hope i die before my parents. I just cannot Imagine how i would feel if my parents went before i did. Same thing with my siblings.

[Cawar]

AUN for all dead famil members..and esp moms.

[Madmadoobe]

^Did he say his mother is dead?! Stop wishing for the guy's mother to be dead man, i read his post there is nothing that even indicates that she is actually dead. If i missed it I apologis and pray to Allah that she goes str8 2 paradise and the same goes for your father ofcourse.

S. Aleykum waraxmatullah.

[Gamadid.]

Madmadoobe, Cawar is not the kind of person who wishes death on people's mothers saxib. I didn't take it that way.

Perhaps how I related the story comes across as too personal.

[HELWAA]

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I POSTED THIS VIDEO...IT'S VERY SAD INDEED....JUST ALLAH KNOWS WHO WILL DIE FIRST...WE CAN DIE BEFORE OUR PARENTS

[sadeboi]

Walhi its weird how all kids think the same, I remember I was 8 or 7 when I begged allah that I die before my mother and that every illness she gets I take half her pain.

Wallhi I don't what I would do if my mom died or my maternal grandma. But I think if they die of old age INSHALLAH and they see my children or grandchildren that would be easier on me.

[Leila2007]

This whole thread is quite sad , personal and it has brought tears to my eyes. I lost my dad some few years ago (AUN) and I still remember how I was told about the whole thing. And yes you need to have a strong Iman to cope and accept that one day that will be you and you cant stop thinking somehow your loved one is still alive !

[sadeboi]

Illahay haa u naxariisto, wallhi its quite sad and imagine in Somalia this is a normal thing, so normal that people are well accustom with death. Allah kulli haa na caawiyo.