GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.

[xidigow]

why somali marriage is failing? how would you solve if you could?

[Ms.Khan]

Somalis don't value the sanctity of marriage. Thats why everywhere I see single somali mothers. You guys should take a look at pakistani households and how we treat our spouses with the upmost respect, that's why divorces are very rare among my community.

[xidigow]

Before we take the any model Pakistanis or otherwise, what is the problem to begin with? is there one single problem or many different ones?

[Ghetto_Faarax]

i dont have time for some Nagging xaliimo who wants to go smoke shiisha on weekends with her friends

[xidigow]

i dont have time for some Nagging xaliimo who wants to go smoke shiisha on weekends with her friends

Good point! What the demanding and broke Farahs who always asking money (from welfare) for KHAD or simply wanting to FADHI-KU-DIRIR at corner cafes.

[surrender]

its all somali men's fault. bunch of loosers. all they do eat qaad smoke and talk at makhaayado about somali politics. most somali men are not worth merrying. now you know somali girls are marrying ajnabiis. there is more life in marrying ajnabiis. they know how to look after their kids and families. Most somali men are disgrace to our country, name and religion.

[Gifted]

I think both somali men and woman are guilty. Remember it takes two to tango!!

[HELWAA]

I blame the ciyaal suuq MEN.

[surrender]

I think both somali men and woman are guilty. Remember it takes two to tango!!

I disagree. remember what allah has said. women are 50% less of a men. its the men that suppose to lead the family. lead the wife, the girls, the sisters, the mothers, and the daughters. if they were doing everything allah told them to do, i know for sure women would follow. but hey that dont happen. infact is the men that doing the following these days. makes you wonder eh? why is that? most somali men are weak. too weak to look after their children, familes and daughters. but not weak anough to start a war; a civil that saw our country in flames. we here today in the west, following their culture, because of somali men. it wasnt women who went around killing, raping, burning houses. it was MEN. men are the back bone of our country. but when the back bone bends it needs to be fixed otherwise it will break. somali men have broken to tiny pieces of uselesness. not offence to anyone but just stating the fatcs. i hope our brother, sons, fathers realise what the doing to their country affects everyone including their sisters.

[Executive]

Why are you people complaining? If you end up with a loser its your own fault, probably cause you are a loser yourself.

[surrender]

^^^thats exactly what im talking about. our men thats their mentality. thats how the reply, and thats how the think. doont you all get upset when you daughters, sisters and cuzens marry madows and cadaan.

[Samatr]

^^^thats exactly what im talking about. our men thats their mentality. thats how the reply, and thats how the think. doont you all get upset when you daughters, sisters and cuzens marry madows and cadaan.

Are they not your cousins, sisters and daughters too, or the Somali males care this burden by themselves. I never get upset, because her kids will never be Somali and thats the price she must pay.

[Navy9]

We don't have transparency and accountability!

[Xaaji_Xundjuf]

war maxa ka gallay dad is guursaday ma condom baad tahay

[sadaam's step dad.]

^^^thats exactly what im talking about. our men thats their mentality. thats how the reply, and thats how the think. doont you all get upset when you daughters, sisters and cuzens marry madows and cadaan.

Are they not your cousins, sisters and daughters too, or the Somali males care this burden by themselves. I never get upset, because her kids will never be Somali and thats the price she must pay.

Samatr

saaxib i would understand if they married cadaan, but when they marry jareers 's that are as lazy as somalis

if not worser, is just mind boggling