Is he cheating?

[Sephora]

People...
I need advice....
I've just listened to a voicemail, left by some chick I dont know, on my husbands phone.
She sound distressed and saying sumtin about calling her too late in the night and she's worried her family might take it the wrong way.
I'm contemplating calling this chick and ask her what's the deal...
Tell me, wise move or a total fiasko....

[Advo]

women and their illogical thought patterns, one word: Disgusting...........do u seriously want to end up broke, garoob who's possibly the laughing stock because she mis interpret some phone call, I mean what upright walking men doesnt have a voicemail about a chick distressing about why he calls late; I do, My father did, Osama probably has cavebytches texting him all nights through the hour: and what the hell are u doing going through his phone like that, the fok is wrong with u, the man obviously needs his privacy, does he get's upset and all in ur business?, if men had ill thought patterns like women, he would probably trip on ur tampon for staying in u for that long.

[Foxy22]

Sephora,

Advo has issues as you can tell, so by all means do disregard him.

Do you trust your husband? If you do, just ask him and whatever answer he gives you, you will know if he is telling the truth or not. Whenever you find a man that is defensive about his phone, there is always a story behind it.

By the way, when your husband is calling someone really late at night, where are you?

[Sephora]

Advo...
U must've been treated really badly by several women to judge by u'r tone.... Sorry bro, I wasn't listening on his voicemail out of paranoia but because somebody was suppose to call Me to his phone, there was a voicemail messege on the phone and me assuming I missed my call wanted to check if the messege was for me... not being paranoid about my man or anything coz so far he's been yummy...
Foxy...
Thanx for the advice sis... I'm not going to call the chick back as I will loose face that way... I will ask my hubby instead... And to answer your question.... I was probably asleep...(if he called that is)

[HELWAA]

Hi sephora

Let me tell you this..if he were cheating on you and some females call him i doubt he would trusted you with his cell phone.Simpel is that.

If i were you i would wait till i have valid proof.

Soomaalido waxay tiraah

Kaadi badane waa loo gogol badiya....

[Sephora]

Helwaa...
sis... my mum uses the exact same line.... she also says 'geedki orod lagu fuulo, orod aa lagu soo degaa'...
thanx sis... I came to the same conclusion as well....

[PINK_BUNNY]

Most likely he's cheatin......Sounds 2 fishy......

[DANGIRL]

Calling another woman late in the night???? That could only mean one thing and he aint up to no good.

[Nabeela]

You only gonna drive yourself crazy if you don't confront him, find out whats going on ASAP, things like those never really go a way unless you get the bottom of it, just talk to your husband, it might not be what it seems, you never know.

[1nkaarQabe]

If he is cheating, then your probably ugly, have put on some weight etc and you should be happy he hasn't divorced you. If he isn't cheating, then your good to go. Therefore, your option is to do nothing and pretend you didn't see that messege.
That there is some sound and real advice from a man's perspective, don't let these bitter girls put some crazy thoughts in your head.

[suga_n_spice]

boyfriend i can understand, but a "husband" dang! thats crazy.
just b on the look out sis, dont do anything suspicious urself. one other thing sis, do u know how many wives deal with everything their husbands do?? A LOT so iskaga samir he'z ur way of getting to jannah!! good luck sis, may allah guide u.

[Foxy22]

Hmm, so to all of you imagine this yeah
the wife receives a call at 2am sleeping next to her husband and there is a dude screaming on the phone the wife's name and saying where are you 'Ms X', everyone is waiting for you at the party? and this dude keeps repeating this? so should the husband think that she is having an affair? or the wife receives a msg from another man, so is she having an affair?

Saphora,

I truly hope everything has worked out for you and you found the right explanation. By the way, don't always run with your imaginations.

[nafisa.bush]

sephore very very important you do this

Confront the woman. Trust me if he is cheating on you she will be the one that will tell you the truth. NOT your husband. The fact a married man is receiving phone call from other women (not relative even then be suspicious) is definatelly cheating or plannning to cheat.

DO NOT CONFRONT HIM. Since he will lie to your face. Men are natural liars and in your husband case he went to the limit of the matrimonial guideline by having another women calling him at NIGHT.

MARK MY WORD... He is cheating.

How do I KNOW THIS...... I USE TO BE THE OTHER WOMEN and have been with married men for 3-7 years for financial and boredom reason. WHile still dating single guys. They were there for one I needed my tuition paid off, car fixes etc etc etc. and if they didn't do it. I WOULD THREATNED THEM BY CONTACTING THEIR WIFES.

FYI. after I was done with them I contacted each wives to let them know.

[Advo]

^That's just evil.......but I wish we were friends in college, I wouldve used ur connection to pay off debts too

[nafisa.bush]

[quote="Advo"]^That's just evil.......but I wish we were friends in college, I wouldve used ur connection to pay off debts too [/quote]

lol fully paid off no debt at all also helped out my university buddies too . and then a few fu.cking xalimos started doing the same thing and became too crowded and harder to get the cash from these men