Would you get intimidated

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Would you get intimidated

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Am a female. 21. Just graduated doin a psychology degree. Now im on to do a doctorate in educational psychology, which means i will be Dr. .... ... not miss or mrs.. And i will probably inshallah get a nice salary. My mum however is sayin i shud forget about the doctorate and just get a normal job cus i wont find a somali guy cus they'll get intimidated if they see that im over qualified and earn more than them...

Would you get intimidated if your girl earns 3 times what you earn??
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Bullshit!

There are plenty of well-educated Somali brothers! Besides if you're that well-educated wouldn't you be looking for someone who was your equal? If he was your equal, he wouldn't feel intimidated would he?
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True.. there are lots of well educated brothers out there. But thing is.. Not enough.. My category was already limited to - muslim, somali, isaaq, alright looking, nice gentleman and then also educated...

Lol besides Somali educated men still go for the 'housewife' type which they dont think educated women are.
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MAXAA KAA GALAAY DO UR THAANG :up:
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Queen_Hargeisa wrote:My category was already limited to - muslim, somali, isaaq, alright looking, nice gentleman and then also educated
I think i might know him....his name is Abdi-sumthin or sumthin

some broads abroad need to broaden their horizons :arrow:
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^ You're right,,,but everyone has their preference,,,,,,
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some of these women are so brainwashed with feminist ideologies that white peeps taught them but what goes around comes around if they treat miskeen guys it will come back to them.

Lakin that is kinda true what she saying some faraxs are insecure and they need to man up me i can handle any gal from west east the universe lool u just have to be on their level but if she has a big mouth and in competition instead of supporting me walalhi i will kick her to the curse i treat them well if they treat me bad by calling the police she will pay either here or back home in somalia no mercy i dont mean beating i mean i know what to do.

Lots of women regards of nationality or race have big mouths and drama queens but there is plenty of 1s that know how to treat their man. 1 thing i realised some women intentionally go for a bad guy then complain and abuse a miskeen guy later. Thats why some go back home.

Still wife and husband both need to support each other its no good being a miskeen that everyone can walk all over stand ur ground also their is guys that treat their haas wife bad and that ant gd if its that bad divorce innit but inshallah love will conquer all between my wife.

Treat each other with respect horta i dont feel threatened by these career woman or house wife in the west as long as she treats me and my kids and parents with respect so caadi iska diga man up to these women handle them innit.
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Me, personally I wouldnt get intimidated aslong as she doesnt flaunt it and shid, but hey, I am not issaq, maybe they would prefer u to be a housewife.
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Queen_Hargeisa wrote:Am a female. 21. Just graduated doin a psychology degree. Now im on to do a doctorate in educational psychology, which means i will be Dr. .... ... not miss or mrs.. And i will probably inshallah get a nice salary. My mum however is sayin i shud forget about the doctorate and just get a normal job cus i wont find a somali guy cus they'll get intimidated if they see that im over qualified and earn more than them...

Would you get intimidated if your girl earns 3 times what you earn??


i have a match for you: Omar Rageh

:lol: :lol:
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LOL at omar rageh. He thinks he's too over qualified for a mali chick... --> He's married to a white woman
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Queen_Hargeisa wrote:LOL at omar rageh. He thinks he's too over qualified for a mali chick... --> He's married to a white woman
but am sure if your present your qualifications, he would dump that white trash and run to you.

8) :lol:
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i wouldnt mind a woman that earns more than me :) , aslong as you dont put down the man, by saying you earn more than him
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pick a guy that earns more then you.
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2 be honest n str8 fwd, i wudnt mind if she makes more than i do or even have a better or more education as long as she has a gud head on her traps she str8 with me ,, i mean look at it from dis window, if u r married 2 a smart, well educated lets say even has an PHD, strong i wud rather have her as a wife than any other gal because if sumthin happens n i leave dis earth one day i wud leave known dat my kids and family r secured with her.. if a guy gets intimidated by tings like dat, he aint got no right 2 call himself a MAN
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Re: Would you get intimidated

Post by DisplacedDiraac »

The money you make is yours, and who cares if you make more than him, as long as he can take care of his/your family, than its fine.

Only a nacaas who's probably worthless would feel intimated by you and your papers or statues.
I'm sure you'd go for a guy on the same page as you.

As long as you don't flaunt your money around him and make yourself superior to him *which can happen during arguments etc* than waa caadi.
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