Bumbing into a girl from my old high school...

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Bumbing into a girl from my old high school...

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i went 2go shopping with my brother yestaday... then i saw a young somali girl pushing a pram with 2kids... it was a girl that i knew from my high school years ago.

she dissapered i remember at the start of year 11. I never really spoke 2her maybe cuz she was fat and she was always shy. But when i saw her she lost alot of weight and looked pretty.

Then as she walked past she said "HI" and said my name :shock: ... she remembered me very well i 4gt her name so i made an effort not 2ask her cuz that would be kinda rude.

Then we start 2chat she tells me she left school 2get married and the children with her were her son and baby daughter. She goes on about her "aabo" made her get married to a older man. But then what suprised me more was the fact that she said she was never more happier getting married and having children. She said that she loves being a mother.


we said our goodbyes... and wished each other gudluck.
but seeing her made me rethink the whole notion that girls who are forced into marriages end up miserable.
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yhh its truee..

u kno apparently arranged marriages r more likelyy to work out better than those based on "love" or chosen for them selves...

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Arranged Marriage :down:
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aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw How Cute....!! Is She Divorced?...If She's Ku Dac Nooh: LOL...But Some How I Do Fink Arrange Marriage Is a Good Thing...Well In a Way It's..Marriage Is a Big Decision 4 All Of Us...So It Shouldnt Realli Matter If It Is Arranged By Ur Folks Or You...One Way Or De Ava You 'nd That Person Are Gonna Connect....Less Headache For 'nd All...Neeeeeeeewaiz...WHY am I TYPIN This?...
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forced marriages like the girl you just menchaned i think are a definate NO NO plus it's haram

arranged marriages is a different thing and what mostly works out for the better, i honestly don't mind my parents or other family members trying to hook me up with someone they think would be good for me as long as i have the last say offcourse, these are the marriages that are halaal and are very successful
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Are you sure she was Somali :? Because we normally turn fat after marriage :lol:

Anyway. Forced marriages :down:
Arranged marriages :up:
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Forced marriages :down:
Arranged marriages :down:
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forced marriages are interesting :up:
you get forced to... err... do things.... (like cooking n cleaning ofcourse)
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ok arrange marriage as long as it ant forced she seem happy thats gd.
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arrange marriage :down: :down:
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Oxy- wrote:maybe cuz she was fat and she was always shy.
you just said it 8) that's why she was forced to get married arranged married cause she was fat and shy and she's happy she's married because this is as good as it gets
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In the asian community and some somali

Arrange marriages tend to last longer

Arranged marriages are blssed....aslong as its ur choise :up:

Love marriages tend to end after da gal being pregnant 5months on :lol:
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if so many of you think a arranged marriage is so successful and good, why don't you let your parents find you some1.. :roll:
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^^ In process...Wen im ready :lol:
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Arranged Marriage :down:

When u in a marriage problemz n u start blaming ur parentz :down:

Cuz they chose ur partner get me!
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