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What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 1:28 pm
by AbdiWahab252
That an ex of yours has a child that looks a whole lot like you but she is married.

It happened to a friend of mine and I can swear that the kid is a spitting image of him.

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 1:29 pm
by Shirib
Let her husband deal with it and avoid her and that baby

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 1:47 pm
by sheekh-Farax-zero
:?

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 1:52 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Shirib,

Wise words.

But say if the kid grew up and became a leader of his qabiil and fought his biological dad's :?:

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 1:57 pm
by Baansiin
If I were you, I would have stayed away from the kid and the mother too.

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 1:58 pm
by Navy9
AbdiWahab252 wrote:That an ex of yours has a child that looks a whole lot like you but she is married.

It happened to a friend of mine and I can swear that the kid is a spitting image of him.

This is the second time i am seeing you writing about this. Tell your friend and lets hope he knows what to do.

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:04 pm
by kambuli
A/W, quote " But say if the kid grew up and became a leader of his qabiil and fought his biological dad's "

Abdi has a valid point here...That is exactly what I told to a friend of mine who has the same problem...Sad Wallaahay..

Nimanyahow maad ibtiina ka adkaataan :down:
Waxaase idinka sii daran kuwan Alle Awdka ah ee isku walaaqaya ragga caruurtooda :down:

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:07 pm
by zulaika
AbdiWahab252 wrote:That an ex of yours has a child that looks a whole lot like you but she is married.

It happened to a friend of mine and I can swear that the kid is a spitting image of him.
no speculation necessary, he should do a DNA test asap and get over with it., lest there be any sort of smearing of character/reputation for your friend and his ex.

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:11 pm
by The-Screw
oh snap!

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:13 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Navy9,

I ain't telling anyone anything.


Kambuli,

You are correct.

Zulaika,

He could do the test but whats the end result ? A lot of shame will be gathered. Now if that kid ends up being rich n famous, then u get that test done :up:

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:26 pm
by zulaika
AbdiWahab252 wrote:
Zulaika,

He could do the test but whats the end result ? A lot of shame will be gathered. Now if that kid ends up being rich n famous, then u get that test done :up:
i see, he's afraid of possible child support miyaa?

what is it with men and child support horta....if only they feared God the same way this world would be a much better place. :D

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:27 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Zulaika,

No, the embrassment and shame it would bring to the mother and biological father.

I believe anything that is an issue of money can be resolved.

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:28 pm
by Basra-
I will visit her, and put poison in the childs food. Hey its better death than scandal ma ha? :wink:

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:35 pm
by zulaika
AbdiWahab252 wrote:Zulaika,

No, the embrassment and shame it would bring to the mother and biological father.

I believe anything that is an issue of money can be resolved.

huuno, living with shame is worse..at least IMO

Re: What Would You Do If You Discovered

Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:39 pm
by yasmin
Basra- wrote:I will visit her, and put poison in the childs food. Hey its better death than scandal ma ha? :wink:
bisinka wax walan :shock: