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Cheating on Your Wife

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Hey guys. I am alittle bit puzzled by the definition of cheating on a wife thing. Is marrying another wife and not disposing to your wife for the sake of saving the marriage regarded as cheating on your wife?
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dude fuk tht relashionship issuses

just get really high on Cush/ Purple Haze
then watch the 70's Show its soo funny when you high
FEZ is hilarious tht tight pants wearing faggot :lol:

N.B
will get munchies several hours later
make sure fridge not empty
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lol@ for the sake of saving the marriage.

so lying and sleeping with another woman(xalaal/xaraam whatever) will save the marriage? geez u are so clever. :roll:
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Bisinka for the sake of saving the marriage .........i mean that's totally absurd lying some other woman will save your marriage ........... :shock: :roll: .......... simply get going from the relationship :(




zulaika wrote:lol@ for the sake of saving the marriage.

so lying and sleeping with another woman(xalaal/xaraam whatever) will save the marriage? geez u are so clever. :roll:
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hanad_mn wrote: Is marrying another wife and not disposing to your wife for the sake of saving the marriage regarded as cheating on your wife?
No. that is absolutely fine :up: In fact, it is encouraged by many experienced husbands. Don create problem where there arent any. Don't tell if you don't get caught is the key.
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onther useless topic :roll: :roll: :roll:
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Baansiin wrote:
hanad_mn wrote: Is marrying another wife and not disposing to your wife for the sake of saving the marriage regarded as cheating on your wife?
No. that is absolutely fine :up: In fact, it is encouraged by many experienced husbands. Don create problem where there arent any. Don't tell if you don't get caught is the key?
Islamically its not fine. A man can not take a second wife without consulting and getting the approval of the second wife. Islam defined proper ways in going about things like , so brother lets not indulge ourselves in delusions and make up our own assertations here. :lol: Its fine kulaha
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Ismahan123 wrote:
Islamically its not fine. Its fine kulaha
Lady we are talking about Somali way!!
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Baansiin wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:
Islamically its not fine. Its fine kulaha
Lady we are talking about Somali way!!
When it comes to this situation ( marriage & polygamy) Islam is the only way. The Somali way goes out of the window.
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Firefly wrote:
Baansiin wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:
Islamically its not fine. Its fine kulaha
Lady we are talking about Somali way!!
When it comes to this situation ( marriage & polygamy) Islam is the only way. The Somali way goes out of the window.
We (Somalis) when it comes to marriage, we are only concerned about the Somali culture, even if that collides with islam. Otherwise, how can a man who cant feed one wife, goes around and marries a second one?
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Baansiin wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:
Islamically its not fine. Its fine kulaha
Lady we are talking about Somali way!!
Dee hana wareeriin hadee ee diintada somali way tahay. :arrow:
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Baansiin wrote:We (Somalis) when it comes to marriage, we are only concerned about the Somali culture, even if that collides with islam. Otherwise, how can a man who cant feed one wife, goes around and marries a second one?

Don't use the term "we" walaal, speak for yourself. The Somalis who are of that mindset are obviously wrong. If you want to put Somali culture before the Deen, that's entirely up to you. However, Islam is clear on the conditions of polygamy, the man must ask permission from his current wife before he marries a second wife.
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Firefly wrote:
Baansiin wrote:We (Somalis) when it comes to marriage, we are only concerned about the Somali culture, even if that collides with islam. Otherwise, how can a man who cant feed one wife, goes around and marries a second one?

Don't use the term "we" walaal, speak for yourself. The Somalis who are of that mindset are obviously wrong. If you want to put Somali culture before the Deen, that's entirely up to you. However, Islam is clear on the conditions of polygamy, the man must ask permission from his current wife before he marries a second wife.
Can you tell us Ayah or strog hadith saying that?
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:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: @ Libah


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Ismahan123 wrote:
Baansiin wrote:
hanad_mn wrote: Is marrying another wife and not disposing to your wife for the sake of saving the marriage regarded as cheating on your wife?
No. that is absolutely fine :up: In fact, it is encouraged by many experienced husbands. Don create problem where there arent any. Don't tell if you don't get caught is the key?
Islamically its not fine. A man can not take a second wife without consulting and getting the approval of the second wife. Islam defined proper ways in going about things like , so brother lets not indulge ourselves in delusions and make up our own assertations here. :lol: Its fine kulaha

HOLD UP! you dont need too consult nor seek for approval! is your given right allthough it might be best too do so. What you do need, is too treath them right and equal, and also too be able too care for them financially.

If my pocket serves me right I will deff marry a second wife.
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