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Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 2:39 pm
by hanad_mn
Hey,
Just wanted to know how big deal it is when somali guy marry muslim partner from anothe race. Does it make a lot of difference in society integration, raising children, when the other partner dies. anyone who has experience? this is important to someone. what do you think
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 2:48 pm
by Lexmark
half somalis with somali dads are clueless 99% of the time and majority are gaal...they also tend to dislike their dad and somalis in general since they were raised by single mothers....marriage ends and dad disappears.
either way these marriages dont last
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 2:53 pm
by Shirib
I will only marry a Somali girl, and no other race.
In the west when one of the parents is not Somali (especially the mother), the kids end up loosing their Somali identity.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 2:54 pm
by Htologist
hanad, sxb ninka ragga ah gabadh inuu qabiil ku raaco ama ku guursado waxay ila tahay waa wax aad u foolxun; dumar qualities badan baa lagu raaca, qabiil is lagu midab takooro gabadh waaa stupidh nimo! I don't mind haday iyada i tiraah, 'Qaldaan ma date gareeyo' lol...
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 2:57 pm
by hanad_mn
Lexmark wrote:half somalis with somali dads are clueless 99% of the time and majority are gaal...they also tend to dislike their dad and somalis in general since they were raised by single mothers....marriage ends and dad disappears.
either way these marriages dont last
lexmark,
Maybe you misunderstood but we are talking about a good muslim girl who will still and has always been a muslim regardless of divorce or death.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 2:57 pm
by Lacageylacag
Believe me, it all depends on the Iman of the non-somali husband/wife.
I know a Zambian married to a somali lady.
He is hafith al Quran and imam of a mosque.
Somalis love him more than his Somali wife.Hishouse is never empty of somalis.
Somali xun xun especially girls in pre-marriage affairs are abusing the system.
when somalis disaprove of the evil, they use the race card since most of their "customers" are
madow.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 3:00 pm
by hanad_mn
Htologist wrote:hanad, sxb ninka ragga ah gabadh inuu qabiil ku raaco ama ku guursado waxay ila tahay waa wax aad u foolxun; dumar qualities badan baa lagu raaca, qabiil is lagu midab takooro gabadh waaa stupidh nimo! I don't mind haday iyada i tiraah, 'Qaldaan ma date gareeyo' lol...
Htologist sxb kama hadlayno qabiil oo soomaali dhexdeeda. waxaan kahadlaynaah waa Muslimiinta kale ee aduunka sida indonesian, pakistan, indian, carab, european muslims, African muslims.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 3:02 pm
by HELWAA
Our skinny legs faaraxs are the best...personally aniga waxay ila tahy wax dadkaaga ka wanaagsan ma jiran hadey af noqoto amba dhaqan.Caruurtaada jahwareer kuma dhacyo ilayen aabahood iyo hooyadoodba isku meel bay ka yimaadeen...dhul cunsri ka buuxdo bayno dagannahy ilmihi haduu aabihi madow yahy hooyadi cad dahay dhibaatooyen badan ba soo gaariya xaga asxaabta iyo iskuulkaba iyo identy crises aakhirka.....markaa dadow dadkiina ku eekada.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 3:04 pm
by The_Emperior5
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 3:06 pm
by hanad_mn
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 3:44 pm
by hanad_mn
lets debate more.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 4:56 pm
by hanad_mn
maxaa loo aamusay?
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 6:28 pm
by Broccoli
i've had my fair slice of exotic a.ss but i'd prefer someone somali-speaking to be my wife.
that way i can say things like "nayaa, kir baa ku dhahay, isii cashada!" to her. cant find those terms in english or whatever.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 6:38 pm
by hanad_mn
Broccoli wrote:i've had my fair slice of exotic a.ss but i'd prefer someone somali-speaking to be my wife.
that way i can say things like "nayaa, kir baa ku dhahay, isii cashada!" to her. cant find those terms in english or whatever.

kir maku aqaano english ani xitaa.
Re: Does Race matter in marriage in somali Society
Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 9:40 pm
by Lexmark
Although i dont mind who somalis marry (as long as u dont talk shiit about somalis and basically self hate or come back running when he/she leaves ur pregnant foreheaded ass), but something always made me uneasy when i see a somali married to an ajanabi
its like wtf...do they suffer from self hate, were they too ugly to get a somali...all this shit races through my mind.
But please, dont embarrass urself or somalis in the process...nothing is sadder than a fat low income white man married to a skinny burnt xalimo or skinny ass farah married to a fat white chick
its like when somalis marry ajanabis they end up with the waste products that no one wants
I have yet to see a somali chick married to a educated white dude or ajanabi with a good income...or a good looking white chick/ajanabi with a somali dude...its always the same shit
and the funny thing is that these somalis were the same ones that were calling somalis wasted, ugly, etc....i guess thats karma...my mom always told me what ever faults you hate in a person and announce to the public, is what ur going to end up with....if you tell everyone u hate short women or short women are ugly, ur gonna end up with one
