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i just saw this on s-life

anyway kudos to that MSA, they did a good job....

But I still do not want to marry outside my race...maybe a mixed somali

i still wont let my daughter marry a Non Somali but the thing is its so sad diinteenu ma oggalla middib kala soorr

The_Emperior5 wrote:i still wont let my daughter marry a Non Somali but the thing is its so sad diinteenu ma oggalla middib kala soorr

as long as you live in the west, the possibility is open sxb

i dunnow i would probably react the same way as that arab dude if my daughter in 20 years came with the same story man
i know its not in our deen inad nin gabadh uu diidiid just because of the colour of his skin

but then again i am oday iidoor oo kibirsan

kibir Allah ba iskaleh.
you thank Allah your girl nin muslim ah ba want to marry her in halal.
imagine kinirkaas hadu meel hun ko geeyo iyo thuriyadada?

i would prefere my sisters to be with in the family leave alone dad race kale ah
but taas not minal islam, im just little over protective
but hado fi'an yahay i have no say.
lakin wan kibir badanahay taas wa thanbi.

Wow poor marwa, that's really sad. Some people are just extremelly ignorant when it comes to marriage, if he's a practicing muslim then there's nothing wrong with that even if he's from another ethnic background.

I want my daughters inshallah to marry somalis, does that make me a bad person?

Who the hell is going to marry them if he divorces them with kids? No somali dude would want a somali woman divorced by a non somali with kids..

I have seen enough cases were somali girls married religious non somalis then ended up in divorce, then they had a hard time finding a man who wants to marry them at all..

Divorce rates are high now a days but at least somali women who went through a bad marriage with a somali are in way better sitituation than the ones who had it with non somalis.

only ignorant somalis will think that way alchemist. there are plenty of guys who wouldn't mind. besides it's calaf.

Alchemist,I think any girl in her right mind would want to remain single for the rest of their lives than end up with khalid. But I guess atleast ur looking out for ur daughters best interest, as long as it isn't cause of racial issues cause that's pure haram.

Madd_Scientist_ wrote:only ignorant somalis will think that way alchemist. there are plenty of guys who wouldn't mind. besides it's calaf.

You honestly think there are a lot of somali guys who wouldnt mind marrying a somali woman who had couple of kids for a non somali?

This only shows how much you know about somali men..

Some somali men won't even marry a single mother with somali kids, they usually end up sending their kids to somalia so they can remarry.

true that i don't know that much about them, but i think i know enough. what i was trying to say was that all somali men dont think that way, some are i guess a bit more open-minded than others.

and i honestly think so, yes.

i'm a single mother with 3 kids and i'm only 22, so why oh why wouldn't they want me ?

Gifted wrote:Some somali men won't even marry a single mother with somali kids, they usually end up sending their kids to somalia so they can remarry.

yes but still single mothers get married everyday..

hell if i liked a single mother i would marry her why not.

but not if she was married to non somalis.