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When should you say I'm through with you to your spouse-to-be of 5 years? when they do exactly what?

You learnt quite a small number of weak spots from this person who you thought was flawless in that spot and they are relatively imperative elements you want your wife to be to do extremely well, not be weak at anway. You talked about it, you articulated your apprehension about it, in fact you strongly suggested it shouldn't happend again and you were promised more than few times that it wont happen again yet it seems to happen.

Your learning all this things when its time that your finalizing and setting the marriage date. You gave so much to this relationship, everybody is involved, from hooyo to aabe of boths sides to the entire families and every friend or relative you have. Pulling the plug is a treacherous alternative yet your having all these doubts?

What would you do?

Dude

Are you serious?? If you only knew how I think of women..you would never trust even 1 of them.

BTW..I happen to be the only one here...mostly.. when you post your sometimes lame topics ..
just incase your wondering my early reply..as I have noticed you did recently..lol

I been meaning to ask you that horta, why you always online when i'm?

What do you think fo women ileeyow? and why is you calling my topics lame? You know they are complex and full of substance.

1neman

maybe this was what stressed you out .....(reffering to your last topic).....i think you should pull the plug on your fam+friends.. who happened to be so involve in your Relationship......and try to work the problems between the two of you


see if this works.. .. remember if its meant to be its meant to be 8)

good luck

1nemansquad wrote:I been meaning to ask you that horta, why you always online when i'm?

What do you think fo women ileeyow? and why is you calling my topics lame? You know they are complex and full of substance.

1) Cos I wait for you to be online..what do you think??

Maybe we just log on around the same time..does that need an explanation??

2) I think they are evil...more harmful than Shaytan himself..IFF they want to..and dont take my word for that..check the QUran.

3) Your topics are lame 50% of the time cos I expect better than you.given how I view/consider your brains to be..unless I am wrong!!??

4) You damn right they are complex..but not full of substance if you ask me..they are full of evil..


Now, though I could care less, some might think I am bitter..but Wallah..I have seen many devilish acts from women..
And when they deceive other men just to be with you..for your looks/talk/charm..and do their things..YOU have every reason to be doubtful..
To the point that you say..what the eff do I have better than those poor guys being decieved??

TP, when I say everybody is involved what I essentially mean is 'everyone knows about the relationship, happy and is supportive of it'.

And thank you, your very kind.

dammm man that's too much pressure for a person to be in, so much expectation around u and yet u dont wanna go through it but u also dont wanna disappoint anybody. talk about catct-22, all I know is, if I was in ur situation, I would think hard about the subject, but I would never force my self to dance with failure.

1neman

ooh sorry I Thought they were against the relationship....

its all good then.... most Couples have problems... don't worry it will work out... be positive

and you are welcome dear

cawar how old are you?... coz man with experience.... would say the Opposite...

Ileey, ma naag aanshukaansanayo baa tahe? I ain't here to impress you fool. Is-was mataqaantaa.

My topic are full of evil?
wtf, dude i'm by the far one of the few forumers with the purest hearts around here. Yes, I'm unsympathetic sometimes and say pretty ugly things but that is just tough love mate.

And your right, you fockind sound bitter, must be the old age and being single.

Advo, sxb there's also another twist to all this, I genuinely do want to marry this person but they just keep letting me down.

1man. bax sakiin laq ma taqaantaa..dabaalyhaow..I was being serious abt the women stuff man.


Trophy, I am too young to know a thing or two abt you evil women..dont you think??

Cawar wrote:1man. bax sakiin laq ma taqaantaa..dabaalyhaow..I was being serious abt the women stuff man.


Trophy, I am too young to know a thing or two abt you evil women..dont you think??

i wonder why 8)

TrophY-WifeY- wrote:

Cawar wrote:1man. bax sakiin laq ma taqaantaa..dabaalyhaow..I was being serious abt the women stuff man.


Trophy, I am too young to know a thing or two abt you evil women..dont you think??

i wonder why 8)

You know what I really think of you anywayz.

Depends what it is that she keeps on doing! If it is huge, do it, although I would never suggest to make a girl whose virginity you took into a single mom. I don't encourage divorce saaxib but being in a relationship that is not going anywhere is not good either.

Cawar wrote:

2) I think they are evil...more harmful than Shaytan himself..IFF they want to..and dont take my word for that..check the QUran.

What you think is IRRELEVANT .This is the second time you have made this accusation! DONT you dare LIE about ALLAH and accuse HIM of supporting your sexist hate filled views!!

Enlightened~Sista wrote:

Cawar wrote:

2) I think they are evil...more harmful than Shaytan himself..IFF they want to..and dont take my word for that..check the QUran.

What you think is IRRELEVANT .This is the second time you have made this accusation! DONT you dare LIE about ALLAH and accuse HIM of supporting your sexist hate filled views!!

OK..do you want the words of ALLAH?? wher he says WOMEN are more evil than Shythan himself??

Just say yes..and I'll be glad to provide you...with such...
I just wonder wether you will dismiss God's words as a weak Hadeeth as I have seen you do recently!!