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FEMALE CIRCUMCISION NOT FGM !!!!!!!!!!!

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Female circumcision is Islamic and cultural for Somali and a widely practiced part of the world whether Muslim or none Muslim .

the connotation of FGM female genital mutilation is a psychological warfare to terrorist the weaker mind.
calling FGM will have the upper hand for those who are gaining on somali woman sexual emancipation.
to dilute the somali and islamic culture of the somali race.

and top of it to create a bridge between younger generation, born and bread in europe and the older generation who still hold dear to their islamic believe and somali culture.

the older generation are those that have been circumcised and the younger one are those that have not.

Families will be dissolved as the pride (cizaa) of those families which are their girls will be brain washed and sexual freedom will create a high number of ba5tards (unlawful children).


IT IS ISLAMIC AS NO SHEIKH IN THE WORLD WILL PROVE AND PROVIDE A VERSE OF THE KORAN OR AN AUTHENTIC HADITH TO SAY THAT FEMALE CIRCUNCISION IS HARAM.

HOWEVER AS MYSELF DJIBSOMALI HAVE PROVIDED ON NUMEROUS OCCASION THAT IT IS ISLAMIC
AND SPECIALLY A SHAAFI TENET.


a simple proof is as follow:

There is A more authentic Hadeeth in which Prophet Muhammad (P) is reported to have passed by a woman performing circumcision on a young girl. He instructed the woman by saying:
"Cut off only the foreskin (outer fold of skin over the clitoris; the prepuce) but do not cut off deeply, for this is brighter for the face (of the girl) and more favorable with the husband.

IF IT WAS HARAM THE PROPHET WOULD HAVE STOPPED.
BUT NO.
HE ADVISED ON HOW TO PRACTICE THE CIRCUMCISION.
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horta i have seen some wadaad's supporting the practice on channel four :o
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It's not an Islamic practice. It's a primitive Arabo-African-Asiatic cultural procedure that scars the girl for life.

Why you're condoning it is beyond me. Please, don't have any kids.
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We are talking here about islamic legal grounds.

not heresay and this and that.
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It's one of those acts which are neither haraam or an act of ibaadah. He neither disagreed with it or agreed, he (saw) left it up to us to choose but gave us guidelines and not go to extremes. He was never (forgive me if I'm wrong) heard saying do it ..

I remember watching Channel 4 - the Qur'an documentary (which went on for 2 hours) and one brother which I have lost respect for said it is not islamic, rather an african practice and has no stand in islam therefore haraam. I couldnt believe it.
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Circumsicion for MEN you foking mindless rodent

Seriously....

your an idiot....shut da hell up.

Somali culture is fokin backward and male dominated. And of course a weakling like would like to have your cake and eat it too...Go fuk around as much as u want and then go and punish the woman for wating to do the same shiit as u.
Fok you and your bloddy ass mentality. How is it humanly possible for you to take a helpless child and take away a part of her body that ALLAH (SWT) HIMSELF placed upon her.
I dont knwo what kinda shid your taking you context from but its WRONG!....W. O R N G


FYI
Men have clitoris is as well...so what makes you think he was talking about women rather than men?
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ms.nalia wrote:

Circumsicion for MEN you foking mindless rodent

Seriously....

your an idiot....shut da hell up.

Somali culture is fokin backward and male dominated. And of course a weakling like would like to have your cake and eat it too...Go fuk around as much as u want and then go and punish the woman for wating to do the same shiit as u.
Fok you and your bloddy ass mentality. How is it humanly possible for you to take a helpless child and take away a part of her body that ALLAH (SWT) HIMSELF placed upon her.
I dont knwo what kinda shid your taking you context from but its WRONG!....W. O R N G


FYI
Men have clitoris is as well...so what makes you think he was talking about women rather than men?

Maybe because this entire topic is entitled "FEMALE CIRCUMCISION NOT FGM!!!!111!!
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ms.nalia wrote:

Circumsicion for MEN you foking mindless rodent

Seriously....

your an idiot....shut da hell up.

Somali culture is fokin backward and male dominated. And of course a weakling like would like to have your cake and eat it too...Go fuk around as much as u want and then go and punish the woman for wating to do the same shiit as u.
Fok you and your bloddy ass mentality. How is it humanly possible for you to take a helpless child and take away a part of her body that ALLAH (SWT) HIMSELF placed upon her.
I dont knwo what kinda shid your taking you context from but its WRONG!....W. O R N G


FYI
Men have clitoris is as well...so what makes you think he was talking about women rather than men?

Not only your mother have not circumsiced you but she have not taught you manners.
We are talking about islamic grounds and culture.

Which you lacking on both.

Or shall i write in french?
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"FYI
Men have clitoris is as well...so what makes you think he was talking about women rather than men?"

:o :o :o :o
where is it located?
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Asalamu alikum

The sunnah one is different from the one somalis do


The somali one is abit extreme,they don't cut a little (which the hadith says) they cut all and furthermore stitch up the girl, leaving a tiny hole for her to pee, and menses for later in life.

I don't like it FULL STOP. :|

However I will abide the one in which they cut a little, this usually means she still has her parts, and is not stitched up.

Either way the Prophet Muhammed (pbuh) never practised it, so whats the point to it? Surely if the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) saw any benefits or wisdom to it he would have insisted his daughters and wives have it done too; right?

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Warsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:Asalamu alikum

The sunnah one is different from the one somalis do


The somali one is abit extreme,they don't cut a little (which the hadith says) they cut all and furthermore stitch up the girl, leaving a tiny hole for her to pee, and menses for later in life.

I don't like it FULL STOP. :|

However I will abide the one in which they cut a little, this usually means she still has her parts, and is not stitched up.

Either way the Prophet Muhammed (pbuh) never practised it, so whats the point to it? Surely if the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) saw any benefits or wisdom to it he would have insisted his daughters and wives have it done too; right?

Wasalam
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you seem to be reasonable.
about the prophet wifes and daugthers, no sheikh can provide proof that they were not circumsiced.
the opposite is valid as well.

however there are many hadiths and even our madhaab shaafi insist that woman should be circumsiced.


OUR SOMALI CULTURE SHOULD PRESERVED BY ALL COST.
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djibsomali wrote:
Warsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:Asalamu alikum

The sunnah one is different from the one somalis do


The somali one is abit extreme,they don't cut a little (which the hadith says) they cut all and furthermore stitch up the girl, leaving a tiny hole for her to pee, and menses for later in life.

I don't like it FULL STOP. :|

However I will abide the one in which they cut a little, this usually means she still has her parts, and is not stitched up.

Either way the Prophet Muhammed (pbuh) never practised it, so whats the point to it? Surely if the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) saw any benefits or wisdom to it he would have insisted his daughters and wives have it done too; right?

Wasalam
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you seem to be reasonable.
about the prophet wifes and daugthers, no sheikh can provide proof that they were not circumsiced.
the opposite is valid as well.

however there are many hadiths and even our madhaab shaafi insist that woman should be circumsiced.


OUR SOMALI CULTURE SHOULD PRESERVED BY ALL COST.

Asalamu alikum

Very true, but the point still stands that they might have not been circumcised. As you pointed out the opposite is valid too.

In terms of the Shaafi Madhaab that somalis follow, I have A classical manual of Islamic sacred law and it says:

e4.3 Circumcision is obligatory (O: for both men and women. For men it consists of removing the prepuce from the penis, and for women, removing the prepuce (Ar. bazr) of the clitoris (n: not the clitoris itself, as some mistakenly assert).

By all means lets preserve our culture, but lets not distort Islam. Islam did not condone removing everything and then stitching her up, which causes so much hardship and suffering for the females. I have seen this first-hand.

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Warsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:
djibsomali wrote:
Warsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:Asalamu alikum

The sunnah one is different from the one somalis do


The somali one is abit extreme,they don't cut a little (which the hadith says) they cut all and furthermore stitch up the girl, leaving a tiny hole for her to pee, and menses for later in life.

I don't like it FULL STOP. :|

However I will abide the one in which they cut a little, this usually means she still has her parts, and is not stitched up.

Either way the Prophet Muhammed (pbuh) never practised it, so whats the point to it? Surely if the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) saw any benefits or wisdom to it he would have insisted his daughters and wives have it done too; right?

Wasalam
:rose:


you seem to be reasonable.
about the prophet wifes and daugthers, no sheikh can provide proof that they were not circumsiced.
the opposite is valid as well.

however there are many hadiths and even our madhaab shaafi insist that woman should be circumsiced.


OUR SOMALI CULTURE SHOULD PRESERVED BY ALL COST.

Asalamu alikum

Very true, but the point still stands that they might have not been circumcised. As you pointed out the opposite is valid too.

In terms of the Shaafi Madhaab that somalis follow, I have A classical manual of Islamic sacred law and it says:

e4.3 Circumcision is obligatory (O: for both men and women. For men it consists of removing the prepuce from the penis, and for women, removing the prepuce (Ar. bazr) of the clitoris (n: not the clitoris itself, as some mistakenly assert).

By all means lets preserve our culture, but lets not distort Islam. Islam did not condone removing everything and then stitching her up, which causes so much hardship and suffering for the females. I have seen this first-hand.

Wasalam
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Respect!!!!!!!!
May Allah bless your family and future family you will have.
At least i have learned something from you and will try to get the book.
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Jazakallah :D

Amiin, Amiin, Amiin a thousand times...

May Allah also bless your Family too and future family.
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FGM is backward culture. :down: we need to move on, somalis. stiching innocent girls, dont decrease the leve of h0ness in our community. we need aducation, not backward, ignorant culture. some somali cultures i will gladly leave behind, and FGM is definetly one!
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