Somali Girls, advice from a brother. Public service
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Somali Girls, advice from a brother. Public service
Take it or leave it. It is my rants.
Divorce is getting widespread among all communities including Somalis. Everywhere I go, I see many young girls (under 25) with 2-3-4 kids as single mothers. No fathers (for many different reasons) in the children's lives and they have little hope they will find another husband. Imagine how hard it is. Why do Somali girls still rush into marriage that can't survive? You can answer that, but here is my advice how you can avoid.
Most Somali men are like Htologist and Cawar dudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years).
Don't expect an extravagant expensive wedding. Instead buy a condo, house for the money. Many marriages broke down because of financial stresses caused by wedding debts.
Dont breed the first 5 years, most Somali marriages fail within the first 4-5 years. Remember good children come from functional families with 2 parents (Ok some come come from Single parent homes). Remember, if you are a single mom with kids, your chance of having a husband will diminish. He can easily find another one.
Get good education, good skills for survival instead of getting hitching-marriying too early.
Don't marry if you think it will make you independent from your parents control. Marriage is a bigger responsibility.
Once you are married, ditch most of your single life habits, like chatting and getting addicted to forrums.
Ditch most of your useless friends. They will only do you more harm than good.
I endorse my opinion.
Divorce is getting widespread among all communities including Somalis. Everywhere I go, I see many young girls (under 25) with 2-3-4 kids as single mothers. No fathers (for many different reasons) in the children's lives and they have little hope they will find another husband. Imagine how hard it is. Why do Somali girls still rush into marriage that can't survive? You can answer that, but here is my advice how you can avoid.
Most Somali men are like Htologist and Cawar dudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years).
Don't expect an extravagant expensive wedding. Instead buy a condo, house for the money. Many marriages broke down because of financial stresses caused by wedding debts.
Dont breed the first 5 years, most Somali marriages fail within the first 4-5 years. Remember good children come from functional families with 2 parents (Ok some come come from Single parent homes). Remember, if you are a single mom with kids, your chance of having a husband will diminish. He can easily find another one.
Get good education, good skills for survival instead of getting hitching-marriying too early.
Don't marry if you think it will make you independent from your parents control. Marriage is a bigger responsibility.
Once you are married, ditch most of your single life habits, like chatting and getting addicted to forrums.
Ditch most of your useless friends. They will only do you more harm than good.
I endorse my opinion.
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Are you Musika Man?
If you are Musika Man, why do you care about Somalis? You are Benadiri and above these half-humans.
Let them eat each other alive. I've heard of Somalis having oral sex, anal sex, ear sex...name it and they do it these days. Give up, you can't do public service for people who resent civilization.
If you are Musika Man, why do you care about Somalis? You are Benadiri and above these half-humans.
Let them eat each other alive. I've heard of Somalis having oral sex, anal sex, ear sex...name it and they do it these days. Give up, you can't do public service for people who resent civilization.
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paidmonk wrote:Are you Musika Man?
If you are Musika Man, why do you care about Somalis? You are Benadiri and above these half-humans.
Let them eat each other alive. I've heard of Somalis having oral sex, anal sex, ear sex...name it and they do it these days. Give up, you can't do public service for people who resent civilization.

I'm in Somali mood, I watched the opening cermony of the olympics, the Somali skinnies marching with this

You are sick, obbssessed with sex.

Re: Somali Girls, advice from a brother. Public service
"Most Somali men are like Htologist and Cawar dudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years)."
Waryaa Shanshi shirtoy boi..I'll have you know..I never made any1 a single mom.But if she was one to begin with..then I aint the saviour dude.



Waryaa Shanshi shirtoy boi..I'll have you know..I never made any1 a single mom.But if she was one to begin with..then I aint the saviour dude.
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paidmonk:- This is a topic for SOMALIS! Get out, please.
American-Suufi:- Preach, brother!

American-Suufi:- Preach, brother!


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Re: Somali Girls, advice from a brother. Public service
A message brought to you by the Department of Public Health, Province of Ontario.Cawar wrote:"Most Somali men are like Htologist and Cawardudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years)."
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Asalamu alikumAmerican-Suufi wrote:Take it or leave it. It is my rants.
Divorce is getting widespread among all communities including Somalis. Everywhere I go, I see many young girls (under 25) with 2-3-4 kids as single mothers. No fathers (for many different reasons) in the children's lives and they have little hope they will find another husband. Imagine how hard it is. Why do Somali girls still rush into marriage that can't survive? You can answer that, but here is my advice how you can avoid.
Most Somali men are like Htologist and Cawar dudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years).
Don't expect an extravagant expensive wedding. Instead buy a condo, house for the money. Many marriages broke down because of financial stresses caused by wedding debts.
Dont breed the first 5 years, most Somali marriages fail within the first 4-5 years. Remember good children come from functional families with 2 parents (Ok some come come from Single parent homes). Remember, if you are a single mom with kids, your chance of having a husband will diminish. He can easily find another one.
Get good education, good skills for survival instead of getting hitching-marriying too early.
Don't marry if you think it will make you independent from your parents control. Marriage is a bigger responsibility.
Once you are married, ditch most of your single life habits, like chatting and getting addicted to forrums.
Ditch most of your useless friends. They will only do you more harm than good.
I endorse my opinion.

Yes this is very true, divorce in the Somali community is getting too much.
LOL at the two guys you mentioned.....inshallah their just kidding online. I don't believe I need to know him 3 years though, inshallah I'll suss him out in no-time 8)
Totally agree with expensive weddings having a large part in breaking down marriages........VERY, VERY, true.
FIVE years is toooooooooo much, I want to have kids as soon as I marry inshallah

Yes I'm working on my education alhamdulilah. What chatting akhii? Forums well I probably will...but he better not be a forumer himself.

My two cents are be patient, and turn to Allah in all time of needs, and pray all the time for guidance, and then be patient inshallah.
Wasalam
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Re: Somali Girls, advice from a brother. Public service


Why is it that everyone seems to post BEFORE me.
I wish I didn't write so much

Wasalam to all



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American Suufi Good thread! 

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Re: Somali Girls, advice from a brother. Public service
Excellent thread! This needs to be stickied.



Re: Somali Girls, advice from a brother. Public service
Excellent thread indeed. 

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AgreedDivorce is getting widespread among all communities including Somalis. Everywhere I go, I see many young girls (under 25) with 2-3-4 kids as single mothers. No fathers (for many different reasons) in the children's lives and they have little hope they will find another husband. Imagine how hard it is. Why do Somali girls still rush into marriage that can't survive? You can answer that, but here is my advice how you can avoid.
AgreedMost Somali men are like Htologist and Cawar dudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years).
Strongly disagreedDont breed the first 5 years, most Somali marriages fail within the first 4-5 years. Remember good children come from functional families with 2 parents (Ok some come come from Single parent homes). Remember, if you are a single mom with kids, your chance of having a husband will diminish. He can easily find another one.
Strongly agreedGet good education, good skills for survival instead of getting hitching-marriying too early.
Strongly agreedDon't marry if you think it will make you independent from your parents control. Marriage is a bigger responsibility.
My god......This is one of the biggest problems xalimos have..
AgreedOnce you are married, ditch most of your single life habits, like chatting and getting addicted to forrums.
Stronly agreedDitch most of your useless friends. They will only do you more harm than good.
Re: Somali Girls, advice from a brother. Public service
Wow, that was awesome. 

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Re: Somali Girls, advice from a brother. Public service

but faraxs need a few home truths too:
The rest of humanity does look down on you for fu.cking up your country and joining UNHCR line for food and ticket to western country like a woman or child..
Yes if you are over a certain age its a disgrace that you are in western country begging another man in his own land for provision and refuge..
Be like a Somalilander and take pride in your country and learn from your mistakes..and build your country so you may return and live in dignity in your own land..
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Re: Somali Girls, advice from a brother. Public service
musika, my parents have been married 20 years to the day today...and i was born 18 months after they were married...
so i take offense to the 5 year rule
aliyah, its not as universal as it seems and somalia is always in a cycle of violence, what does it offer?
but i agree there are too many men begging the system and not being accountable for their own fams...
so i take offense to the 5 year rule

aliyah, its not as universal as it seems and somalia is always in a cycle of violence, what does it offer?
but i agree there are too many men begging the system and not being accountable for their own fams...
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