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Post by American-Suufi »

Take it or leave it. It is my rants.

Divorce is getting widespread among all communities including Somalis. Everywhere I go, I see many young girls (under 25) with 2-3-4 kids as single mothers. No fathers (for many different reasons) in the children's lives and they have little hope they will find another husband. Imagine how hard it is. Why do Somali girls still rush into marriage that can't survive? You can answer that, but here is my advice how you can avoid.

Most Somali men are like Htologist and Cawar dudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years).

Don't expect an extravagant expensive wedding. Instead buy a condo, house for the money. Many marriages broke down because of financial stresses caused by wedding debts.

Dont breed the first 5 years, most Somali marriages fail within the first 4-5 years. Remember good children come from functional families with 2 parents (Ok some come come from Single parent homes). Remember, if you are a single mom with kids, your chance of having a husband will diminish. He can easily find another one.

Get good education, good skills for survival instead of getting hitching-marriying too early.

Don't marry if you think it will make you independent from your parents control. Marriage is a bigger responsibility.

Once you are married, ditch most of your single life habits, like chatting and getting addicted to forrums.

Ditch most of your useless friends. They will only do you more harm than good.

I endorse my opinion.
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Are you Musika Man?

If you are Musika Man, why do you care about Somalis? You are Benadiri and above these half-humans.

Let them eat each other alive. I've heard of Somalis having oral sex, anal sex, ear sex...name it and they do it these days. Give up, you can't do public service for people who resent civilization.
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paidmonk wrote:Are you Musika Man?

If you are Musika Man, why do you care about Somalis? You are Benadiri and above these half-humans.

Let them eat each other alive. I've heard of Somalis having oral sex, anal sex, ear sex...name it and they do it these days. Give up, you can't do public service for people who resent civilization.
:somalia: :rose:

I'm in Somali mood, I watched the opening cermony of the olympics, the Somali skinnies marching with this :somalia: :rose:

You are sick, obbssessed with sex. :down:
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"Most Somali men are like Htologist and Cawar dudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years)."

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Waryaa Shanshi shirtoy boi..I'll have you know..I never made any1 a single mom.But if she was one to begin with..then I aint the saviour dude.
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paidmonk:- This is a topic for SOMALIS! Get out, please.

American-Suufi:- Preach, brother! :up: :D :somalia:
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Cawar wrote:"Most Somali men are like Htologist and Cawardudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years)."
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American-Suufi wrote:Take it or leave it. It is my rants.

Divorce is getting widespread among all communities including Somalis. Everywhere I go, I see many young girls (under 25) with 2-3-4 kids as single mothers. No fathers (for many different reasons) in the children's lives and they have little hope they will find another husband. Imagine how hard it is. Why do Somali girls still rush into marriage that can't survive? You can answer that, but here is my advice how you can avoid.

Most Somali men are like Htologist and Cawar dudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years).

Don't expect an extravagant expensive wedding. Instead buy a condo, house for the money. Many marriages broke down because of financial stresses caused by wedding debts.

Dont breed the first 5 years, most Somali marriages fail within the first 4-5 years. Remember good children come from functional families with 2 parents (Ok some come come from Single parent homes). Remember, if you are a single mom with kids, your chance of having a husband will diminish. He can easily find another one.

Get good education, good skills for survival instead of getting hitching-marriying too early.

Don't marry if you think it will make you independent from your parents control. Marriage is a bigger responsibility.

Once you are married, ditch most of your single life habits, like chatting and getting addicted to forrums.

Ditch most of your useless friends. They will only do you more harm than good.

I endorse my opinion.
Asalamu alikum :up:

Yes this is very true, divorce in the Somali community is getting too much.

LOL at the two guys you mentioned.....inshallah their just kidding online. I don't believe I need to know him 3 years though, inshallah I'll suss him out in no-time 8)

Totally agree with expensive weddings having a large part in breaking down marriages........VERY, VERY, true.

FIVE years is toooooooooo much, I want to have kids as soon as I marry inshallah :?

Yes I'm working on my education alhamdulilah. What chatting akhii? Forums well I probably will...but he better not be a forumer himself. :o

My two cents are be patient, and turn to Allah in all time of needs, and pray all the time for guidance, and then be patient inshallah.

Wasalam
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Post by Warsan_Star_Muslimah »

:lol: :lol:

Why is it that everyone seems to post BEFORE me.

I wish I didn't write so much :(

Wasalam to all :up: :up: :up:
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American Suufi Good thread! :up:
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Excellent thread! This needs to be stickied. :up: :up:
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Excellent thread indeed. :up:
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Divorce is getting widespread among all communities including Somalis. Everywhere I go, I see many young girls (under 25) with 2-3-4 kids as single mothers. No fathers (for many different reasons) in the children's lives and they have little hope they will find another husband. Imagine how hard it is. Why do Somali girls still rush into marriage that can't survive? You can answer that, but here is my advice how you can avoid.
Agreed
Most Somali men are like Htologist and Cawar dudes (merchants of making garobs), they are Chinese factories who make single mums, don't rush into marriages with these casanovas. Know the person very well (at least 3 years).
Agreed
Dont breed the first 5 years, most Somali marriages fail within the first 4-5 years. Remember good children come from functional families with 2 parents (Ok some come come from Single parent homes). Remember, if you are a single mom with kids, your chance of having a husband will diminish. He can easily find another one.
Strongly disagreed
Get good education, good skills for survival instead of getting hitching-marriying too early.
Strongly agreed
Don't marry if you think it will make you independent from your parents control. Marriage is a bigger responsibility.
Strongly agreed
My god......This is one of the biggest problems xalimos have..
Once you are married, ditch most of your single life habits, like chatting and getting addicted to forrums.
Agreed
Ditch most of your useless friends. They will only do you more harm than good.
Stronly agreed
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Wow, that was awesome. :up:
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Post by Aliyah99 »

:up:

but faraxs need a few home truths too:

The rest of humanity does look down on you for fu.cking up your country and joining UNHCR line for food and ticket to western country like a woman or child..

Yes if you are over a certain age its a disgrace that you are in western country begging another man in his own land for provision and refuge..

Be like a Somalilander and take pride in your country and learn from your mistakes..and build your country so you may return and live in dignity in your own land..
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Post by FAH1223 »

musika, my parents have been married 20 years to the day today...and i was born 18 months after they were married...

so i take offense to the 5 year rule :down:

aliyah, its not as universal as it seems and somalia is always in a cycle of violence, what does it offer?

but i agree there are too many men begging the system and not being accountable for their own fams...
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