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there was a discussion about marriage yesterday that i was closely following until some idiots hijacked the whole discussion. i'm curious about the whole nikaax thing, how it works, how its supposed to work, when and why and all of that. the difference between old school nikaax and new school nikaax, the do's and don'ts, when to nikaax and when not to nikaax, etc...


i want this to be a serious discussion so please, please PLEASE no one liners or any jokes.

Hmph.

okay screw it depends the culture in every society.
in my end every thing was agreed before the nikaah and before you go infront of qaathi.

so no suprises. i advice you to know all the details before you go infront of the sheikh and the witnesses.
the maher and the amount and how they want it to be paid.
there's mo'ajal= upfront and mo'akher= it should paid later on.
i advice you to just give all at once and kala bahdaan.lol
avoid the high mahar deals.

I'm curious too

Are u really Young Wadani?

I am why do you care?

*yawns*



'ello.

Young Wadani...ok.


Hey Screw ...did u just wake up?

yes, came out of the shower too. so fresh 'n so clean clean baan ku idhi. come 'ere, give me a hug.

Screw,

Warya sheeko kan

war isku xishood...baalagu idhi!


so why this nikaax talk? are u getting ready for marriage?

lol. not right now, no. maybe next year or later. i'm just curious about the rules of nikaax you know. what do you think?

oh ok...well its not complicated..just call an Imam..witnesses thats it..u can hold the wedding (aroos/reception)when you're ready..

well, YEAH! i know that part. i was hoping people would talk about the hows and whens to bring up the whole nikaax thing with someone.