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yet its been said women outnumber men in jahanama.

why ladies...why???

all we have to do to secure jannah is get married and be good to our husbands...that's it??...like that's it?...man how easy is this.

alxamdulilah this is good news indeed. i mean most of the time people wonder the countless ways of being a good muslim...the list can be quite endless and still people wonder i'm i good, have i done good, is Allah pleased with me..etc.

for us women that doubt has been narrowed down...and we have been given a "target" to go after and work on...one target(the husband)..just work on him, please him and make him happy and vous allez!!! Jannah.

Alxamdulilaah indeed.

Females are the majority in hell according to islamic teachings

Buhodle-Gurl wrote: Jannah is under tHe feet of tHe mother too

JK for tHe reminder zuilka

most of us are good to our mothers anyways...so imagine adding to that ajar? securing jannah never looked soo easy walahi.

some xalimos are really bad towards their mothers...like beating them up and shit...running a way from home etc

Lexmark wrote:some xalimos are really bad towards their mothers...like beating them up and shit..

Never heard someone beatin' their mom up . Subxanalah.


zulaika. tRue walal. But in our generation there will always be a conflict on husband n wife rights. Some sisters don't believe in obeying their husband, iF he lacks good quality

Buhodle-Gurl:- What do you mean by "if he lacks good quality" sis? A wife must obey her husband in all matters, except, if he tells her to do something which is against the Deen.

Lexmark wrote:some xalimos are really bad towards their mothers...like beating them up and shit...running a way from home etc

i've seen this a few times.And I blame their mothers.

Firefly

A wife must obey her husband in all matters

I don't like the use of that word , and it is only indicative of the newly found radical views of the Southern Somals.

Naagtu ma neef meel taala oo kolba wax loo kala sheegaya miya ? Dadyow haddad Sucuudi Carabiya ku soo korteen , markay xabadu dhulkiina idin ka eriday anagu haddaynu somali nahay , we are considered one of the most equalitarian society in the muslim and arab world !
Jilaabkiina iyo abu, abu-giina halkina inaga la jooga

Buhodle-Gurl wrote:FireFly


in general, of being the ideal muslim husband walal. Would I be obligated to obey him, even iF he's not followin' the sunnah?

You must obey your husband so long as he doesn't command you to do anything against the commandments of Allah (swt) and His Messenger (saw).

Girls don't have to go to the Masjid to pray
Don't have to go to Jum'ah
Don't think they have to make Xajj


and a lot of other things

Firefly wrote:

Buhodle-Gurl wrote:FireFly


in general, of being the ideal muslim husband walal. Would I be obligated to obey him, even iF he's not followin' the sunnah?

You must obey your husband so long as he doesn't command you to do anything against the commandments of Allah (swt) and His Messenger (saw).

well said.

SahanGalbeed wrote:Firefly

A wife must obey her husband in all matters

I don't like the use of that word , and it is only indicative of the newly found radical views of the Southern Somals.

Naagtu ma neef meel taala oo kolba wax loo kala sheegaya miya ? Dadyow haddad Sucuudi Carabiya ku soo korteen , markay xabadu dhulkiina idin ka eriday anagu haddaynu somali nahay , we are considered one of the most equalitarian society in the muslim and arab world !
Jilaabkiina iyo abu, abu-giina halkina inaga la jooga

And why did you just quote that part of my reply? Why did you conveniently leave out the EXCEPT part?