When u suspect ur man is cheating

[Alwaysonthego]

What are the signs? And how can you make sure u get him 2 confess or confront him but how do u get the evidence? Ok, I think my man is cheating he is acting funny and distant, sometimes when he picks up the phone his voice changes into type of tone you speak in when your dissapointed or bored. Guys this aint my BF thou we engaged an getting married soon, what should I do?

[touchin_skyz]

confront him

simple...

[Ka darag]

Engaged ermmm. I wouldnt know the signs... ...u could always look through his phone etc but that might not be a gd idea...

I would say confront him and u should be able to tell by his reaction...

[Abdi_westldn]

Ok maybe tis not him but rather you maybe your the problem....ever thought of that?

[Alwaysonthego]

But he wont confess and I would seem paranoid. Come one who will confess 2 cheating? Looking through the phone I did already and he wasnt silly enough 2 leave any signs on there

[Ka darag]

But he wont confess and I would seem paranoid. Come one who will confess 2 cheating? Looking through the phone I did already and he wasnt silly enough 2 leave any signs on there

Can i say ur supposed to trust him 100% if u guys are getting married?

[Alwaysonthego]

Ok maybe tis not him but rather you maybe your the problem....ever thought of that?

How would I be the problem? I mean when your in a commitement you dont just decide 2 cheat, you suppose 2 communicate first about any problems. We havent had any troubels tho everything was all gd be4ore I dnt knw whats going on

[Alwaysonthego]

But he wont confess and I would seem paranoid. Come one who will confess 2 cheating? Looking through the phone I did already and he wasnt silly enough 2 leave any signs on there

Can i say ur supposed to trust him 100% if u guys are getting married?

You right and I always did trust him untill my I felt this strong female instict showing me the signs of what is or might be happening behind my back.

[Abdi_westldn]

Ok maybe tis not him but rather you maybe your the problem....ever thought of that?

How would I be the problem? I mean when your in a commitement you dont just decide 2 cheat, you suppose 2 communicate first about any problems. We havent had any troubels tho everything was all gd be4ore I dnt knw whats going on

Well maybe thats just it you've become too boring much too soon your supposed to wait until after your married too do that you know.

[Alwaysonthego]

Ok maybe tis not him but rather you maybe your the problem....ever thought of that?

How would I be the problem? I mean when your in a commitement you dont just decide 2 cheat, you suppose 2 communicate first about any problems. We havent had any troubels tho everything was all gd be4ore I dnt knw whats going on

Well maybe thats just it you've become too boring much too soon your supposed to wait until after your married too do that you know.

R you suggesting that me becoming boring is a reason for him 2 cheat. We aint even living 2getha yet what could be boring we have some much 2 look forward 2. Argh ur just a typical dude there is no excuse for cheating boring or not

[Abdi_westldn]

Actually I don't think he's cheating a man doesn't have too be seeing somebody on the side to act distant seriously believe me when I say it's all you.

[Alwaysonthego]

Actually I don't think he's cheating a man doesn't have too be seeing somebody on the side to act distant seriously believe me when I say it's all you.

Then what could it be then? I mean just ignore ur fiance all of the sudden. You talking from a man point of vieuw what the hell is it then? U man are just so weird I swear

[Qumanyoo]

in a way abdiwst is right

laakin ure gona get married u need to sort it out before anything

sutins probably on his mind

if not - yooo - keep it moving!! in the nicest way possible

[Abdi_westldn]

Well maybe he's scared of the responsibility you know his whole life's gonna change when he marries you maybe he's wondering if your the one I don't know but I doubt he's cheating cause no man commits to someone their not satisfied with.

ps. Cheating comes after the marriage.

[Alwaysonthego]

Abdiwstldn If I was anywhere near you I would have hit you on the head with whateva is near 2 me for sayin "ps. cheating comes after marriage". Dude am in a state of paranoia now u saying that just made it worse. AAARGH u men are heartless