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Would you plan your family in order to Finish your school if you are married?

why and why not.

no. you can settle down while in school but should be finishing soon.

Well I was never married when I went to school

But if I were u, I would not start a family until you have sorted out yourself; finished your education, got a decent job and some money in the bank.

I agree with Abdiwahab,

I agree with AbdiWahab, u gotta finish school first and have a good income.

Otherwise what will u raise ur family off of? Financial aid and $9.50 job.

Can i say what i think??

Anyways i will war wax dhaal yeey nagtu ku nicine lol if you are married hadi kale dont marry inta dhameyneysid school.

i disagree, i think its good to be married young. this whole settle down and sort yourself out mentality is bullsh!t. i talk with people twice my age who have been married for nearly 20 years and they all tell me the same thing. everyday i am amazed at the answers i get.

The-Screw wrote:i disagree, i think its good to be married young. this whole settle down and sort yourself out mentality is bullsh!t. i talk with people twice my age who have been married for nearly 20 years and they all tell me the same thing. everyday i am amazed at the answers i get.

Ok getting married is one thing, what about having kids. Do u think someone should have kids before they are done with school, and don't yet have a good steady income?

lol. hey, who said anything about having kids.

The-Screw wrote:i disagree, i think its good to be married young. this whole settle down and sort yourself out mentality is bullsh!t. i talk with people twice my age who have been married for nearly 20 years and they all tell me the same thing. everyday i am amazed at the answers i get.

clap clap clap..

well said tommy. i can't believe i am agreeing with u.

well said indeed.

No, I would not istaqfurrullah. I seriously, do not understand the kind of people who would jeopradize their chances to conceive because they want to finish school. Everything is in the hands of Allah, we cannot prevent nor can we stop no matter how much we say we will.


The Imaam at our masjid recently finished a degree in engineering, is working on his masters, and is happily married with like six children and counting. Mashallah, what's better then having the best of both worlds. And he still has more energy then men younger then his age who have nothing to worry about, nor any responsibilities except for a "regular" job or school. May allah bless his family and give him all the success in the world. Amiin

The-Screw wrote:lol. hey, who said anything about having kids.

LOL, the question was

Would you plan your family in order to Finish your school if you are married?

So I assumed he was talkin about havin kids

Cruella, i can't believe you are agreeing with me too. hmph.


Shirib, he said married. kids are just ...well, the small fine print at the bottom of the contract.

Naa suga imankaas waa kee??

suga_n_spice wrote:No, I would not istaqfurrullah. I seriously, do not understand the kind of people who would jeopradize their chances to conceive because they want to finish school. Everything is in the hands of Allah, we cannot prevent nor can we stop no matter how much we say we will.


The Imaam at our masjid recently finished a degree in engineering, is working on his masters, and is happily married with like six children and counting. Mashallah, what's better then having the best of both worlds. And he still has more energy then men younger then his age who have nothing to worry about, nor any responsibilities except for a "regular" job or school. May allah bless his family and give him all the success in the world. Amiin

The imaam at ur masjid is the man. Masha'Allah.