Ask yourself 10 Questions about your mom..!!

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Ask yourself 10 Questions about your mom..!!

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Sometimes, to be able to really evaluate what kind of relationship we have with our mothers, we need to ask ourselves the right questions. Here are some that can help:

1. When was the last time you visited you mom? (if you don't live with her)

2. Do you think your mom is happy with you?

3. Have you ever said "UFF" to your mom?
"Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him, and they ye be kind to parents. whether one of both of them attain old age in they life, say not to them a word of contempt (UFF), nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor. And out of kindess, lower to them the wing of humility, and say 'My lord! bestow on them Thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood" (Quran 17:23-24).

4. What is it that your mom really wants to have?

5. How much do you know about your mom's mother?

6. What might be five things your mom really doesn't want you to do?
Abdullah ibn Amr related that the Messenger of Allah said, may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him: The major sins are to believe that Allah has partners, to disobey one's parents, to commit murder, and to bear false witness (Bukhari, Muslim)

7. What are three things that make your mom happy or sad?

8. How many minutes do you engage in "quality talk! with your mom a week?

9. When was the last time you cooked for your mom?

10. When was the last time you gave your mom a gift?
Aisha narrated that the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: Echange gifts with one another, for they remove ill feelings from the heart (Tirimidhi).



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woah - never really thought about it
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Same here Qum, makes you think... I'm gonna start having a brady bunch moment with my hooyo from now on insha'Allah :up:
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1 thing i get confused about is how islam really gives gr8 importance 2obbeying parents. thats good :up:

but what if u have bad parents- careless 1s- the ones who do nothing but shout and inkaar?
is it a bad thing 2try and avoid them?
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JazakAllahu khayran for this post!

How relevant to me! I'm on bad terms with my mother at the moment, asaghfirullah! It's ramadhan aswell, I feel guilty now even though it so petty I dnt think my mum wants to spk to me at the moment. We r usually best mates aswell!

Plz brz/srz make Du'aa 4 me!
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Insha'Allah everything will be fine between you and your mother... :up:

Wallahi I went through the same thing, My hooyo and I weren't talking, but yet she did little things for me.. even though they act like their mad or whatever with us, deep down they ain't... best thing to do is apologise for whatever happened...

I missed out on 2 months with my mother walahi, but now thank Allah (swt) were on great terms... :up: even though it was my mother who took the first step to kiss and make up...

we treat our parents like their out mates :cry: :oops: ... we need to learn to differentiate :shock:
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I know subhanallah!

I think I'll make the 1st step! Bismillah!
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How can you not chat to your mum :roll:
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alxamdulilah I must Say I have had a realli good bond wid Hoyoo Since childhood
Sainab wrote:we treat our parents like their out mates ... we need to learn to differentiate
i think sometimes its ok to treat your mother like a friend especiallly hoyoo walahi we need to have a bond wid our mothers like we do wid random chicks most people are more close to frends than their mother
How comes you can tell ur frends everything bout your life yet u barely exchange words wid ur hoyoo!
but yh Sis we need to diferentiate when this friendship is appropriate! all im saying is confide in your mothers more often and talk to dem dont 4 get they have been through most things once they were teenagersthey are wiser and know alot more
Allah knows best sisters lakiin im stressing a bond with your mother is important because onli she wont backbite about you betray you ,mislead you,your mother got the best characteristics of a frend yet most of us Hardli give our mothers the time of the day
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"ummak thuma ummak thuma ummak thuma abook" oxy even if u had evil parents u still have to treat them good.. Sinabay ma walatay waxas wa kebir go kiss her on da head :up:
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Me n Ma ummah have a brilliant relationship wallahi da older i get da more closer i get to her..
I love her to bits she is my bestfriend..can tell her anything as she wud advice me or either tell me what to do......

Isit me or ave u noticed wen dey tell u sumting and u go against wat dey say

HOYOO ALWAYS ENDS UP BEING RIGHT :oops:


I do think its good to have ur mum as a friend but still ackowledge she is ur mamma...

Jannah lies between her feet...

oviously occassionally u will ave ur ups and dwns..but not speakin 2 ur mum

SUXANALA.... :roll: :roll: :roll:
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Post by ladiie~Dime »

:up: my mom and i have a good relationship
but how can you not be talkin to your mom ??
we usualy alwayz get back to normal after 30 minz
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Post by Sainab »

We all love our mums anyway but U kno what I mean when you hav ups and dwns well I neva usually hav a dwn with my ma, but u may sometimes hav a misunderstanding (we r humans) after all.

Alhamdullilah Im not (at least I hope im not) a waalid'kaarad! I always help my mum in the house and spk nicely to her. But we also spk lyk m8z.

Anyway it all gd in da hood!

Jazal'Allahu khayran.
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