There's few things I have to get of my chest. I have to say, that sadly there's no muslim brotherhood in this forum, let alone the idea of Somali[ness]. People here are bloody predators hunting for a prey. And what I mean by that is they would love to humilitate you, expose you in the worst light, and give everyone your information and life. I'm not saying their all like this.
However, this is the net, never give your details.....here are some tips:
. You don't know who you're talking to. I could tell you I'm Sarah from North london, get you a picture of a Somali girl, how hard with that be? Similarly Brother could do that too.
. I can seem to be like anyone. Can anyone of you say that I am what I am? No, my personality could be different, so don't believe the sweet talking bullshit, "I think about you all the time," cliche.
. Be alert to people who seem to want to know a lot about you. Sure, they may be normal people who are genuinely interested, but they also may be internet dirtbags!!!!!
. Be HUGELY cautious about meeting people in person. Especially alone, or in strange places.
:: The Somali system is the Clan system, the ones that can hurt you the most are the ones that know your family, and are very close to you in terms of Qabiil.::
:: I'm not being paranoid Sisters, be safe rather than sorry. Would you all agree with me that a girls reputation means alot to her, and her family? What if the internet dude you supposdely fell in love with knows your community, you, your family and does his best to ruin your reputation? How would your mum feel when other ladies are saying, oh her daughter has been meeting men of the net, and sleeping with them? (Astgfirallah) Sooner or later, someone who you really want to hide your flash picture from is going to see it. (Or someone that knows them will). It could be your parents, it could be the your husband/husband-to-be in 2 years time who really doesn't like that sort of thing, etc. ::
Walikum Salam
Prophet Muhammad (SAAS) said, "Surely the worst of the people is the two faced person, who comes with one group with one face and to others with another face." (Saheeh Muslim)
"Do you know what backbiting is?" People said, "Allah and His Prophet know better." Then he said, "Backbiting means that you say about your brother a thing which pains him." Someone said, "But what if I say what is actually true about him?" The Prophet replied, "It is backbiting only when it is factually true, otherwise you would be accusing him falsely."
I'm not saying don't trust me, I'm saying don't trust ANYONE.
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