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To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:08 pm
by Warsan_Star_Muslimah
Asalamu alikum.......this is mainly for females, but it can go for guys too.

There's few things I have to get of my chest. I have to say, that sadly there's no muslim brotherhood in this forum, let alone the idea of Somali[ness]. People here are bloody predators hunting for a prey. And what I mean by that is they would love to humilitate you, expose you in the worst light, and give everyone your information and life. I'm not saying their all like this.

However, this is the net, never give your details.....here are some tips:

. You don't know who you're talking to. I could tell you I'm Sarah from North london, get you a picture of a Somali girl, how hard with that be? Similarly Brother could do that too. :| :| :down: :down: :idea: :!:

. I can seem to be like anyone. Can anyone of you say that I am what I am? No, my personality could be different, so don't believe the sweet talking bullshit, "I think about you all the time," cliche. :roll: :down:

. Be alert to people who seem to want to know a lot about you. Sure, they may be normal people who are genuinely interested, but they also may be internet dirtbags!!!!! :evil:

. Be HUGELY cautious about meeting people in person. Especially alone, or in strange places. :shock: :o :shock:

:: The Somali system is the Clan system, the ones that can hurt you the most are the ones that know your family, and are very close to you in terms of Qabiil.::

:: I'm not being paranoid Sisters, be safe rather than sorry. Would you all agree with me that a girls reputation means alot to her, and her family? What if the internet dude you supposdely fell in love with knows your community, you, your family and does his best to ruin your reputation? How would your mum feel when other ladies are saying, oh her daughter has been meeting men of the net, and sleeping with them? (Astgfirallah) Sooner or later, someone who you really want to hide your flash picture from is going to see it. (Or someone that knows them will). It could be your parents, it could be the your husband/husband-to-be in 2 years time who really doesn't like that sort of thing, etc. ::



Walikum Salam

:rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose:

Prophet Muhammad (SAAS) said, "Surely the worst of the people is the two faced person, who comes with one group with one face and to others with another face." (Saheeh Muslim)

"Do you know what backbiting is?" People said, "Allah and His Prophet know better." Then he said, "Backbiting means that you say about your brother a thing which pains him." Someone said, "But what if I say what is actually true about him?" The Prophet replied, "It is backbiting only when it is factually true, otherwise you would be accusing him falsely."


I'm not saying don't trust me, I'm saying don't trust ANYONE. :D

:somalia: :love: :djibouti: :love: :somaliland:

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:11 pm
by The_Emperior5
damn walahi wax baa ii dhaafay man in those 10 hours i was away wtf happend sug ball i need to ask some people some good questions .man meeshi sister section sidan uga maqna meesha dacawa isku cunay :down: :down: :mrgreen:

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:13 pm
by SahanGalbeed
Are you Helwaa by any chance?

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:15 pm
by The_Emperior5
Noo she is not helwaa.

This chicks mosly post on The sisters section . She promotes the sister to marry white converts iyo qashinka nocaas lol :lol:

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:16 pm
by The-Screw
[quote="Warsan_Star_Muslimah"]
. Be alert to people who seem to want to know a lot about you. Sure, they may be normal people who are genuinely interested, but they also may be internet dirtbags!!!!! :evil:


Prophet Muhammad (SAAS) said, "Surely the worst of the people is the two faced person, who comes with one group with one face and to others with another face." (Saheeh Muslim)



:up: :up: :up: :up:


good job on this "color" post. :P

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:17 pm
by Hyperactive
thank you sister, you're mashallah. :up:
people need to respect each other regardless their trust each other or not period.
be qabilist, muslim, kafir, what ever you're.
every one deserves respect, and on top of that every one needs to respect themselves.

if some one wronged me, no need to level myself to that level, two wrongs wont make it right.
wa in la kala roonada, otherwise world would be a jungle.
few wise people are the reason we still surviving.lol

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:19 pm
by Warsan_Star_Muslimah
The_Emperior5 wrote:Noo she is not helwaa.

This chicks mosly post on The sisters section . She promotes the sister to marry white converts iyo qashinka nocaas lol :lol:

Sahan akhii do you see what I was talking about.......? Character assassination at its best.

I have never, ever told sisters to marry white converts. Allahu al musta'aan.

Just because I'm warning people his getting all paranoid and everything.

Wasalam
:lol: :lol:
Jazakallah Hyper, and Screw...

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:21 pm
by Hyperactive
warsan my relation is all in public, no msn, no facebook nothing.
wah lagima qaadayo aniga.lol
two faced people can do anything to me.

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:22 pm
by Addoow
thank you sister for this valuable information.

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:24 pm
by ms.nalia
wuw.

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:26 pm
by The_Emperior5
So let me get this straight snet turnt in to somalidirt.com :lol: :lol:
so who got qarxised :lol: :lol:

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:27 pm
by FAH1223
Well, the internet has always been a scary place. Jazaks

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:28 pm
by Newboy
the topic maker is bilaaa camal nigga come and do my garden if you know what am saying

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:28 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Warsan,

Good advice sister.

However, I have met some sisters here who are wonderful people.

Re: To all the Sisters/ others too....

Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:28 pm
by Advo
Hi warsan, sorry I couldnt respond to ur last pm sister, but here's the info u asked for

My name is ahmed jamac

My social security number is 606-93-2356

Date of birth 3/23/1987

My pin # for all my credit cards is 1496


Jazakallahu kheyr sister, I hope the non-profit organization u represent dont misuse my information.