Guys:: Been the first for a girl: does it matter?>

[Realest_007]

For the guys on this net,

Why is it that we always want to be the first guy a girl dates/and has relationship with?

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In my case, I have dated a girl, and am in a relationship now...but the thing that irritates me is that I'm not the first she dated...and had relationship with.

Before u think further, she dated 2 times with a guy that lived in another country and like 4-5 times with a guy I know (old friend who was exited btw), the guy that lived in another country came real far,and had cyber-relationship he only visited her 2 times..but the cyber relationship was cyber love

Despite the fact that I had dated with her uncountable times, and am in a real relationship with her...it buggs me not to be her first...I exited all others out of the game...still something bugs me..

Is it ego? Guys thing?

PS: she is the real deal, thats why it buggs me not to be her first. As for other girls, I dated them but never cared who they dated or had relationship with since they were not the real deal...

S

[Ghetto_Faarax]

fock off this aint dear deardrie

[Realest_007]

Dont hate sxb....go get yourself one that makes u irritate/wonder about useless small things...then and only then can u say that you're truelly in love

[Padishah]

I would certainly hope that you are her first and only Halal partner. I would certainly hope just as much that she is your first and only Halal partner too. The other stuff you said must be either exaggeration or outright lies for ego purposes.

[Realest_007]

what other stuff?

BTW, the only ''haram'' thing she did was holding hands

Anyways,

Everything I said is 100% true. That little detail I described buggs me sometimes eventhough I have her now 100%, her mind, heart and when the time is right her body as well

[qudhac-m]

Realist
What you mean she dated a guy 4-5 times, do you mean
she muudso and ku fadhiiso and foorooriso.
Anyway la DHAC OO LA DHAC OO LA DHAC ILAA INTA AY BIDAAR YEELANAYSO.

[Realest_007]

Realist
What you mean she dated a guy 4-5 times, do you mean
she muudso and ku fadhiiso and foorooriso.
Anyway la DHAC OO LA DHAC OO LA DHAC ILAA INTA AY BIDAAR YEELANAYSO.

dated=seen a guy, and walked in the city-centre, holding hands...thats it...u know how it goes sxb!

[qudhac-m]

Realest

She is lying i bet she ridded the horse 4-6 times.
Do you need few tips to discover the truth.

[Madd_Scientist_]

it's just your ego talking... you're with her now, which is what really counts, don't you think?

[AyanTu]

Grow some balls and get over ur lil insecurities, u sound like a big baby

[Realest_007]

Qudhac,

Dont talk about females that way. I can recognize a h0e from a mile, and separate the ladies from hoodrats.

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Ayantu,

Its Ego thing, women have insecurities, men have ego issues 8)

[ms.nalia]

Qudhac,

Dont talk about females that way. I can recognize a h0e from a mile, and separate the ladies from hoodrats.

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Ayantu,

Its Ego thing, women have insecurities, men have ego issues 8)

Boost ur a ladyman.....grow some balls, and treat ur girl right

[Realest_007]

ms.nalia,

thats not the issue....I dont mean to bragg but my girl is happy since I gave her everything she wanted in a man. I'm happy too, but this ego thing buggs me, hence why i asked the guys for their opinion.

[Starscream]

wtf dude consider urself her first , the history with the other two guys you described is absolutely nothing. ur getting worked up over nothing, she's fresh.

[Realest_007]

Sxb I know she is fresh and the real deal...but u know how it goes, sometimes when u have the real deal u get worked up about such stuff as insignificant.

The other girls I dated I never care about their past. I even know what kind I was dealing with.