Iga jaahil bixiya bal....

[suga_n_spice]

horta, mar hadaan dad soomaaliya nahay, ma dhaqan baa markuu guurka dhacayo in ee gabadha reerkeeda kaliya ee meesha maamulaan?!

i mean the other day, my mom and i were having a discussion about weddings etc. and she said "it's the girls family whose responsible for everything" ...... of course not money, but u know? the usual things, food, dance, house decorations etc. laakiinse, waan yaabey markee tidhi "the guyz family has no input"

i understand if she chooses what kind of furniture she wants and so forth, but why not at least consider what the guyz family wants. his mother, sisters, aunts. i mean what r they suppose to do, dress up and just sit there?!

ayaan hore, adeerkee baa gursanayey and i was so excited cuz i was gonna get a chance to attend my uncles wedding and what not, until his wife to be was like "sorry, i'm not coming and sittin in front of all those ladies" i was pissed. i seriously wanted to dress her up and force her there, and my aunts were all like "it's her choice, and we can't say anything about it"

personally, i think the guyz family should have some kind of input not just follow the leader

guyz, wouldn't u want ur family to have a say?!

[Minneapolis Mayor]

abaayo waxaa laga cabsanaah in dhib dhoco hadii ay wax isla maamulaan. for example it very common in marka habargidirta iyo majeerteenka isguursanaayaan inta naagaha buraanbur leesku caayo in naagaha isdilaan oo katiinadaha iska jarjaraan. kadibna gabadha iyo wiilka lakala wato. marka this is much safer hadii kale meeshii aroos noqon leheed world war 3 aa dheceeso. ayeeyaa waxee ii sheegtay in one time gabadhii wiilka aroosaayay inta loofasaxay ay naaga cidiisa ah kudheheen dhaqankeena waxaa ah in timaha laga xiiro gabadha. markaas ay naagtii oo tima lehen inta keeneen ay waxay dheen way waalantahay

[American-Suufi]

horta, mar hadaan dad soomaaliya nahay, ma dhaqan baa markuu guurka dhacayo in ee gabadha reerkeeda kaliya ee meesha maamulaan?!

i mean the other day, my mom and i were having a discussion about weddings etc. and she said "it's the girls family whose responsible for everything" ...... of course not money, but u know? the usual things, food, dance, house decorations etc. laakiinse, waan yaabey markee tidhi "the guyz family has no input"

i understand if she chooses what kind of furniture she wants and so forth, but why not at least consider what the guyz family wants. his mother, sisters, aunts. i mean what r they suppose to do, dress up and just sit there?!

ayaan hore, adeerkee baa gursanayey and i was so excited cuz i was gonna get a chance to attend my uncles wedding and what not, until his wife to be was like "sorry, i'm not coming and sittin in front of all those ladies" i was pissed. i seriously wanted to dress her up and force her there, and my aunts were all like "it's her choice, and we can't say anything about it"

personally, i think the guyz family should have some kind of input not just follow the leader

guyz, wouldn't u want ur family to have a say?!

dont worry, no one will bother ur mum to prepare a wedding. u will die virgin.

[suga_n_spice]

MM,

bisinka iyo burdaha

ani waxaa ila fiican in maamulka la isla wadaago shido la'aan!!


AS,

even after she betrayed u and chose another man, ur still on my case huh?! ...... u need to choose a more loyal tramp


* it's ok people u can share ur opinion with me, i won't bite

[American-Suufi]

MM,

bisinka iyo burdaha

ani waxaa ila fiican in maamulka la isla wadaago shido la'aan!!


AS,

even after she betrayed u and chose another man, ur still on my case huh?! ...... u need to choose a more loyal tramp


* it's ok people u can share ur opinion with me, i won't bite

we cater weddings so it comes natural for my family males and females to organize weddings. it is a lamgodly problem.

nabeela is my best friend.

[peace-]

personally, i think the guyz family should have some kind of input not just follow the leader

back in the day ( the baadiye days) marka uu wiilku gabadha la soobaxo the guys family used to take care of everything and the girls family used just get the dowry, i think we should return to the our old ways on this one

[suga_n_spice]

jokes aside. when i came back to reply. there were only 28 views and now 42?!

what the heck is that all about


AS,

u N all the men on snet r best friends with her

peace,

no kiddin?! ok saasna waa laga fiican yahay. i definitely don't want my in-laws preparing my wedding. no way!

hadda waxaanba ka fakaraa sida aan ula dhaqmilahaa

[Air Canada]

suga n spice

My family will do all the work if you are willing to shoulder the costs. What do you say eedo? and i am Hawiye.

[peace-]

suga_n_spice i think the whole wedding thing is past it sale by date, i think it should be abolished along with the marriage institution, now how progressive is that

[AyanTu]

I understand completely what u mean, i've been thru a few weddings this year, and i've found to contest tradition is futile.....

Even when out dated and illogical they still go on and do it, i still can't believe some of it.But it's best to bite your tong, there is always a reason for things

In hindsight it will make sense...

[suga_n_spice]

Air,

aboow raali aa ahaane. hawiyenimo iyo jeeb taraqnimo iskuma darsan kartid. i can only make one sacrifice. besides hadaan eedo kuu ahay sidee hawiye u noqon kartaa?! almiino, habaryar i dheh nooh


peace,

aboow, dad muslim ah aanu nahay sheekadaas ma jirto. waa in la is guursadaa oo la heshiiyaa

ayan,

when it comes to my brothers weddin, u better believe i will have a say. i am not bitin my tongue girl. in fact, they'll be lucky i don't bite their tongue

[peace-]

horta who fu-ck are the somali wedding planner becuase wallahay every wedding i have been to in my life is carbon copy of the first ever wedding i have been too

[peace-]

horta who fu-ck are the somali wedding planner becuase wallahay every wedding i have been to in my life is carbon copy of the first ever wedding i have been too

[Munique05]

Suga n Spice hun u got sume valid points but if da guys sisters/aunts/mother all start havin a say it can turn ugly alot of disagreements will take place...but i've seen sume aroos where da guys family do everthang..but is not always smooth..

[AyanTu]

Haye think of it this way:


When YOU are ready to get married, would YOU want your hubby to be lil sister all in ur face bout what HER demands are????