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Don't get married to a westernized Woman

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My friend who is a university graduate and has his own business married a somali girl and kept her home for 5 yrs without working. After 5 yrs of no children, he divorced her and paid her meher. The girl hired a lawyer and is now seeking Alimony.

The court gave my friend two options,

Either he has to pay all the money that he has including his hilib xalaal or Pay her every month for the rest of his life. She claimed that she depended on his income and has now way to support her self. He is crying Milk now

Get married to girl from baadiyo and you would be save.
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Re: Don't get married to a westernized Woman

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Its the law of the land aboowe, don't hate the player hate the Game, igu salaam gabarta. :lol:
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Re: Don't get married to a westernized Woman

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:lol: , she's smart !

Anigu weligey ku ma fureen xaaskeyga haddey ciyaal ku dhali waydo .
Mid kale aya la guursada , it is highly disrespectful to the woman.
Aad iyo aad bay uga badisay , geesiyadweeye naagtasi .
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Re: Don't get married to a westernized Woman

Post by Xaaji_Xundjuf »

what is westerenized a girl who went to school
a girl who doesent wear headscarf , waxan is guursanaya horta maxa ka gallay naagtadu ma boring bay kugu noqottay.
any way ka gudub naag wax barratay oo ku sheekeyn karta oo aad la doodii kartiid oo maskax leh waleh wax ka fiican ma leh i can tell that.marriage keenu murran ka dhamaan mayo and thats what i like my ex waxay ahayd naag wax barrattay habeen kasta buug bay akhriye jirtay before we went to sleep.
i was like na maxaad buugan ka faiida habeen kasta waaad akhrida ,a ma cilmi ba
ma xadiis ba ma sheeko ba she was really in to social issues she used to help kids in the neigberhoud. and then everday she comes back from work boqol sheeko bay ii haysey.

naag yes sir ku la bal maxaad ka helli walahi i would get bored discoyaada ayaan taggi laha waleh.
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Re: Don't get married to a westernized Woman

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Ina Baxar wrote::lol: , she's smart !

Anigu weligey ku ma fureen xaaskeyga haddey ciyaal ku dhali waydo .
Mid kale aya la guursada , it is highly disrespectful to the woman.
Aad iyo aad bay uga badisay , geesiyadweeye naagtasi .
Caqligaas maxaa u didaay baal.

If a marriage can't produce an offspring then the sane thing to do is to wait a couple of years, the next step is the man to re-marry and see if he can have kids if that works and the doctors say the woman can't have babies and she loves her husband they should stay together for ever.

If not then she should go her own way on her own will, and re-marrry to see if she can have her own kids, but if he divorces she has every right to sue him.
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Re: Don't get married to a westernized Woman

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Mayor,

Please explain to us what do you mean by "Westernized" woman?

This lady sounds like reer baadiyo oo reer magaal bisurca noqotay.

Incidentally, I recently heard of this couple who divorced because the man didn't want to have children and the woman did. So she felt she was getting old and needed to look for someone else to have kids with. ...And yes both were Somalis!

Talk about westernized faraxs!
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