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Danger # 1: Your kid begins to correct/criticize you as a parent based on what the Dugsi teacher taught them.


Danger # 2: Your kid ends up marrying an Foreigner disregarding the long held family preference for marrying SOmalis only and preferably from the same qabiil.


Danger # 3: Your kid ends up becoming too caught up in world affairs. His age mates are concerned about what clothes to wear, sports and chicks while he is preoccupied about Gaza.


Folks, watch out what dugsi you send your kids or they will turn out to be major headaches,

Subxanallah

I been living in Europe since i was 1 year old and you are more westernized even though you were killing people in 1993. Ilahaay ha ku gargaaro

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Danger # 2: Your kid ends up marrying an Foreigner disregarding the long held family preference for marrying SOmalis only and preferably from the same qabiil.

Explain...

The dangers of being an over 30 year old big time fat loser who can't get a woman and lives in the ghetto.

Abdiwahab.

AW are you scared of Islam?

Dawwa,

Instead of Cambaro marrying a Somali man, she chooses a nonSomali. You explain to CAmbaro that there is nothing you have in common with him since he is a foreigner and come from two cultures. She then replies he is a Muslim brother and part of the Ummah, but she may be right but its shocking to the family.

FAH,

Not really. Its just that these dugsi are going beyond the standard curriculum.

AbdiWahab252 wrote: Danger # 3: Your kid ends up becoming too caught up in world affairs. His age mates are concerned about what clothes to wear, sports and chicks while he is preoccupied about Gaza.

How is that a problem? You've just described me.

Ire,

Are you too preoccupied by it ? Is it in your thoughts 24-7 ? Do you spend more time glued to CNN, Jazeera etc than watching something else ?

Actually, I do only watch CNN - no MTV, BET, VH1 et cetera.

I'd rather my kid be obsessed with world issues than sports, chicks, and clothes any day.

Executive this puzzles me, murax was born here and is like 27 years old, fah koa were also born here, others like you and mean came as toddlers to the west, yet none of us have abdiwahab mentality. I know for sure, I can fit into and be taken in to the western lifestyle easily, yet I never have that mindset, lakiin this guy, I think that's just it, HE IS TRYING HARD TO CONFORM to hard, because never take notice of him.

sadeboi wrote:lakiin this guy, I think that's just it, HE IS TRYING HARD TO CONFORM to hard, because never take notice of him.

Low self-confidence is why.