so i was wondering....

[suga_n_spice]

when is it appropriate to kiss and tell?!

when is it ok to tell the person ur dating details about ur past, is it even necessary?!

is it really about honesty and being open with one another?! which later results in either honesty that can be hurtful or deception.....which would u prefer?!

my mother always told me.....ninka ku raba waligaa wax ha u sheegin, xataa hadaad ka hesho ha tusin rabniinkaaga

one of my male friends once told me......"don't ask a woman about her past, because she will either lie to you or tell you something you dont want to hear"

[peace-]

i say you should always tell the truth that way you dont have to remember anything later

[Buhodle-Gurl]

What he doesn't know doesn't huRt.

[suga_n_spice]

so u guyz r saying either tell it all and be honest regardless of the outcome or lie?!

if u lie, it'll backfire one day right?! so lying isn't good.

and peace, i agree with being honest, but being too honest isn't always good saxiib. la soco!

[LadyKastumo]

Suga welcome back, I missed you and your relationship topics

I agree with your friend on that one.

Its safer for him/her not to ask at all. I always used to hear if you go digging for unneccesary things, you might find out something your not gonna like.

[The-Screw]

don't ask a woman about her past, because she will either lie to you or tell you something you dont want to hear"

true.

[Gifted]

Honesty is the best policy

[AbdiWahab252]

Wlc back Suga,

I promise to kiss you and never tell anyone

[GENERAL_SNM]

Us men hate females with history by breaking this rule your on borrowed time, I suggest you forget the past and play the innocent girl, we know your not and you know your not but lets play the game anyway its saver.

[ms.naliaa]

If someone asks you about your past...they should be ready to hear whatever it is you have to say...and if your comfortable...tell him...if ur not...u have every right to say no...

[black velvet]

Personally, I doubt I would be intimidated by whatever girl he was with in the past if anything I would probably gloat infront of her. Lakin men are proud so I think it's important to cushion their ego by making the info more...user friendly (not that you should have deadly bones in your closet in the first place)

[sadeboi]

suga..if it really isn't a big deal..or if you past is not part of your future...and if won't affect anything...simply don't tell...

I never tell certain stuff about myself for the fact..that I know why I did those things and for what..and that the person might not understand the past and present me...marka keep your stuff on the DL like tyrone.

[Serena]

I agree. But at the same time, if the person asks you a direct question, you should be completely honest with them. What kind of relationship is it if you're not honest with one another?

[American-Suufi]

if u had se.x or abortion u should tell him.

[AbdiWahab252]

I agree. But at the same time, if the person asks you a direct question, you should be completely honest with them. What kind of relationship is it if you're not honest with one another?

Co-Sign

And I would like to add:

"Never ask a question if you are not prepared to handle the answer."