Best way to approach her?

[Nabeela]

A while back, I loaned a relative some money, when she forgot her wallet, and she never paid me back. It's not the money that ticks me off, I don't even need the money, it's the fact that she thinks she can get away with it, and never pay up, anyhow how can I bring the loan up without looking cheap or greedy?

[Captain24]

Ask her to borrow you some money, and when she does, never return the money. The loans will offset each other

[dynamic]

if it was a lot of money u shouldnt of given in the first place , family and loans never mix

if wasnt that much then simply dont bother because as u said it will make u look greedy

[studente]

In today's society I do not believe full familial ties exist : If they want money from you they pimp out the genetic material you share for their benefit and then leave you. I have a personal story which may shed some light on your situation. Some time ago, despite my total apprehension, I lent an Isaaq woman some money (a relative by marriage to the utter humiliation of the family). I forgave her and forgot about it since the loan was so miniscule. I think you should do the same. You are being a stupid miser and that does not become a young woman. I mean seriously, if you don't need the money don't ask for it back.

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

Ask her to borrow you some money, and when she does, never return the money. The loans will offset each other

[Twisted_Logic]

A while back, I loaned a relative some money, when she forgot her wallet, and she never paid me back. It's not the money that ticks me off, I don't even need the money, it's the fact that she thinks she can get away with it, and never pay up, anyhow how can I bring the loan up without looking cheap or greedy?

How much was it for? If it is less than 100 bucks, you are very cheap

[Real_1]

It depends on the how much money and far back she borrowed if its some petty shiit let it slide but never give out money to her again because now you know this person is not aamin

[HELWAA]

My advice: this is ur relative, mony is nothing.Lacagta iska ilow laakin dib danbaysa waxba ha amaahin.

[sheekh-Farax-zero]

ask your money when you see her with friends(lot of them), that is best way to approach her.

[Nabeela]

The problem is, she thinks she can get away with it, because she is a family.

[siren]

Let it go this this time, and don't lend her money anymore (Unless she really really needs it).

[AbdiWahab252]

Nabz,

I had a relative borrow $60 from me in 1998 and he has yet to pay me. every time he sees me he runs away

As for your dilemma, next time tell her you forgot your wallet

[Nabeela]

$60?? dude that is nothing.

Aniga waa la i dhacay.

[zulaika]

A while back, I loaned a relative some money, when she forgot her wallet, and she never paid me back. It's not the money that ticks me off, I don't even need the money, it's the fact that she thinks she can get away with it, and never pay up, anyhow how can I bring the loan up without looking cheap or greedy?

nabela,

maybe she forgot she borrowed the money....just remind her...if she does nothing after that, then that would be plain attempt to "get away with it"

[AbdiWahab252]

Nabz,

For $60, I got rid of one annoying relative.

How much $$ are you out ?

For 20%, I can visit your cousin and make her pay up.