Somali Marriage never bonds
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Somali Marriage never bonds
Why is it that When Somalis get married, they never consider themselves one. I mean the girl still consider her family more important to her than her husband and she does everything to Make her family successful financially on the expense of her her husband? The Cidayda and Ninka islaameed still exists. I am not saying we should't help other people but it should be " us first then everybody else later right?"
When the cadaan gets married, The women would tell her mum " we don't have, we can't avoid, we would do this, we would save this" we, we , we , we ,we all the time. but somalis is like cidayda this , cidayda that.
When the cadaan gets married, The women would tell her mum " we don't have, we can't avoid, we would do this, we would save this" we, we , we , we ,we all the time. but somalis is like cidayda this , cidayda that.
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Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
......we're pregnant
anyhow, saxiib we're Somali and we'll always be this way, marka quit the calaacal yaah

anyhow, saxiib we're Somali and we'll always be this way, marka quit the calaacal yaah

Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Somali marriage is a licence to HAVE SEX , thats all,
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maxaa kaasiya Minneapolis Mayor?? of course family comes first!!! i would tell any guy that my momma comes first and everybody else next. and i have told them b4. that i will want to live right next to my momma,my sister. my brothers. if he's got problem with it, i get rid of him there and then!!
family matter, and no matter what, they should come first. and any guy who doesnt understand that, is not worth marrying. god forbid!!

family matter, and no matter what, they should come first. and any guy who doesnt understand that, is not worth marrying. god forbid!!
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XKeyse_ wrote:Somali marriage is a licence to HAVE SEX , thats all,
What was the last time you had Captain Morgans Bottle?
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Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
suga,
I thought when two pple get married, they completely bond together and become one. Mum, dad or grannies everybody else should come next. You should think about his interest first then other people later. You wanna tell me you would fund a business for your family while he works in a factory.
I thought when two pple get married, they completely bond together and become one. Mum, dad or grannies everybody else should come next. You should think about his interest first then other people later. You wanna tell me you would fund a business for your family while he works in a factory.
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Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Not all somali families are like that sxb. If it were the case, blame the spineless man for not taming his wife.
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Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Well there is nothing wrong with helping out your in-laws or your own family, however, naagkasta reerkayda priority wey inay ka dhigta.
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So you're basically saying; the woman needs to submit to her husband completely. But you do know that's very difficult right?
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Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
nolosha guurka waa nolol fiican labada qof hadee ismaqlaan oo kala dambeeyaan. gabadha ma aha in ee ninkeeda maqlin ninkana sidoo kale. ma aha in ee reerkeeda kaa hormariso waayo hadda sowjkeeda ayaad tahay lakiin ma aha in ee rixinkeeda goyso either. balse waxaan kugula talin lahaa in aad ka wada hadashaan oo wadaagtaan ra'yigiina. "ilko wada jir bee wax ku goyaan" 

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Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Taming? What?!? Is she an animal?Aerosmith wrote:Not all somali families are like that sxb. If it were the case, blame the spineless man for not taming his wife.
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Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
FF, he means "ninka raga ah nagtiisa wuu ka adkaan lahaa"
walle nimanka soomaaliyeed meeshey ka sinji qabaan, ha i soo marina!

walle nimanka soomaaliyeed meeshey ka sinji qabaan, ha i soo marina!
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Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
MM, just go get a cadaan girl man
theres plenty who speak somali now a days too
theres plenty who speak somali now a days too

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Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Firefly wrote:Taming? What?!? Is she an animal?Aerosmith wrote:Not all somali families are like that sxb. If it were the case, blame the spineless man for not taming his wife.
Yes, she is an animal of sorts,
what type of animal you may ask?
well a shrew of course.


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