The Rehabilitation of Xalimo

[AbdiWahab252]

Would you ever hook up a male friend/cousin with a woman whose background is more sketchier than J-Lo. I ask because there is this distant cousin of mine who keeps bugging me to hook her up with my friends/other cousins but I know about her past history very well.

Am I wrong ? Or should I help the sister out ? After all, if all her friends who were just as bad as her are now married why not her ?

[The-Screw]

i don't think you should help her out. it wouldn't be fair to your male friend/cousin.

[Minneapolis Mayor]

abti,

Never do to a gentleman who trusts you to what you won't expect him to do to you. You can hook them up but you need to give some heads up to the faarax. Just tell him ( sxb I heard xzy about this halimo and remember you didn't hear that from me). there was a very close lady relative of mine who you know focked around when her Mareexaan husband was in africa. I knew the guy back in Kenya and I volunteered to buy a phone card and told him what the fock she was doing. There was no way he would ever find out because her and her boyfriend used to go to the african american clubs. He did his own investigation and found out the truth.He surprised her with a divorce letter from Africa. He considers me as one of his closest friends now.

[Aerosmith]

a/wahab tough love mate. Tell the girl to face the music. She can always move out of the state or marry a sucker somewhere in Europe, middle east or Africa.

[black velvet]

Is the male friend/cousin you would hook her up with incapable of speaking, observing or even communicating with this girl? Surely he should decide whether or not she would make a suitable wife.

Past is past, marriage is halaal and helping one get married is, in my opinion, a good deed.

[Basra-]

yet another post of xalimo bashing-- no wonder u r single abidwahab.......u is gay.

[suga_n_spice]

abdi, u sound sincere!

this is a tough one. u don't want in aad gabadha cebeysid so just tell her all the guys u know r all taken. or u can always tell her, "gabar baad tahaye karaamadaada hoos ha u dhigin, ninkii ku raba asagaa ku soo doonan"

bv, i agree, but u never know how the two people u introduce will end up. if they do unislamic things without being married it'll be his fault because asagaa is baray. at the end of the day marriage is good, but the two people ur introducing have to be people who will do things the right way.

[AbdiWahab252]

Suga,

I am sincere. Seriously, if she asked me to hook her up with any guy I was not friends or fam with, I'd do it. However, most of my friends and fam would assume she is a wonderful woman which she is but not one with shady history.

[suga_n_spice]

abdi,

i understand ur concern saxiib, but aside from her past does she still do these things, or has she changed?!

[AbdiWahab252]

Suga,

She has grown up and probably doesn't do these things anymore but her rep is out there. You know shiid is bad when even the least picky of Faraxs turn their nose up at her.

[Gifted]

Set her up with farax with shady past, problem solved.

[Nabeela]

Abdi, keep her away from your cousin or anyone you know for that matter.

[AbdiWahab252]

Gifted,

Adeer, he is not interested because when he saw both of us at a wedding, he runs up to me later and says, "Abdiyow, maxa tan ku barey ? Sharafta dhowr !"


Nabeela,

Why ? If her friends can get married, why not her ?

[Nabeela]

Abdi, let's try this from another angle, would you want your friend or a family member to set you up with someone with a shady past?

[suga_n_spice]

nabeela, i understand ur point, but im sure labadan qof in ee yihiin dad waweeyn. i don't see what the big deal is if they get introduced. i mean if they like each other fine, if not end of story right?!