Can anybody shed some light on this? I hope so!

[Nabeela]

Can a wife divorce her husband on the grounds of not wanting kids. Keep in mind that the husband may have a good reason for not wanting to have kids with his wife.

I know a couple who are going through this right now.

Marabo inaan intaan af ingriis ku sheego, sabataa u ninkaa u diiday inaay naagtiisa ilmo u dhasho, waxa weeye, ayada waa convert cidooda oo dhana waa gaalo, markaa wuxu ka baqaya, hadii asaga ee wax ku dhacaan misa u dhinto inay ilmohiisa ka gaaloobaan.

Can she ask for a divorce?

[AbdiWahab252]

All she needs to do is miss her pill, problem solved

[sheekh-Farax-zero]

Can a wife divorce her husband on the grounds of not wanting kids. Keep in mind that the husband may have a good reason for not wanting to have kids with his wife.

you can't have good reason for not wanting kids,,

[Madd_Scientist_]

Can a wife divorce her husband on the grounds of not wanting kids. Keep in mind that the husband may have a good reason for not wanting to have kids with his wife.

I know a couple who are going through this right now.

Marabo inaan intaan af ingriis ku sheego, sabataa u ninkaa u diiday inaay naagtiisa ilmo u dhasho, waxa weeye, ayada waa convert cidooda oo dhana waa gaalo, markaa wuxu ka baqaya, hadii asaga ee wax ku dhacaan misa u dhinto inay ilmohiisa ka gaaloobaan.

Can she ask for a divorce?

If he's worried about that then why did he marry her in the first place?

[sheekh-Farax-zero]

exacto

[Nabeela]

If he's worried about that then why did he marry her in the first place?

Ilahey baa soo hanuuniyee after the marriage.

[ms.naliaa]

Why would he get married to a woman he doesnt/wouldnt trust with his children in the first place?

So he marries her and now wants to back-track..
A-hole!

p.s.
Yes she can DEF. divorce him

[Madd_Scientist_]

so he's scared that if he dies his kids will become gaalo..but if he dies wouldn't the wife (who now is muslim) take care of the children? so why is he worried?

[Kolombo]

She can probably ask for a divorce and if he refuses, she can do khulaa by going to a qaadi. Because he is refusing something that Allah has made halaal, in essence he is commiting a sin.

The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Marry women who are loving and fertile, for I will be proud of your great number before the other nations on the Day of Resurrection.” (narrated by Abu Dawood, 1754; al-Nisaa’i, 3175; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani (may Allaah have mercy on him) in Adaab al-Zafaaf, p. 132)

Also, one of the conditions a woman can initiate divorce is if the husband is unable to have children or does not want to have children.

http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/6228/no%20children

[Hyperactive]

if he doesnt wants kids with her for that reason he should divorce her and marry some one he can trust his kids with. this is is consequests his action before Allah so hadeyey.

[admin]

The common sense says she should have left a long time ago. Nabeela, would you accept if your husband says I love u but you don't deserve to carry my kids? It is unacceptable, no matter how nice he puts it.

[zulaika]

having kids or not having kids should be mutual decision between the couple...no one should single-handedly reach that conclusion. otherwise meesha halagu kala tago dee maxaa la'isku ag jooga hadaanan la'isafgaraneyn.

[almoha]

he didn't mean it a real marriage in the first place there are pple who want to avoid zina and get married for the sake of not doing it. there is no excuse of not having kids if you are married and you want to share your life with that person.

[Nabeela]

Ms Nalia, I don't think it has anything to do with trust.

so he's scared that if he dies his kids will become gaalo..but if he dies wouldn't the wife (who now is muslim) take care of the children? so why is he worried?

Grandparents can strongly influence their grand kids, sometimes positively and sometimes negatively, cause he is worried about that, I'm not sure.


Hyper, I cause he didn't think about the consequences before he married her.

Koronto, thanks

Admin, the thing is he doesn't want a divorce, he is willing to stay with her regardless. Ultimately ilmahiisa haddy gaaloobaan asaga baa masool ka ah, I guess he realized that now, laakin the damage has already been done.

[AbdiWahab252]

Nabeela,

Why does she stop taking her pills ?