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Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 10:57 am
by black velvet
There was a group email going round about this weekend and what we should do and let's just say some people who don't get along publicly said some things to each other.

Now su'aal when you are arguing with someone who has out witted you or annoyed/hurt you (regardless of how much you love/hate them) are you aware of yourself and what you're saying? Do you purposefully try to inflict as much pain as possible ama warka woo kaa so faktaa?

I am a scorpio and I'm supposed to be all stingy lakin walahi I couldn't bring myself to speak to someone the way that guy was spoken to. :|

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:07 am
by Gifted
No, I don't ever loose it. If something looks as if it's getting a bit too much I just leave. Especially if it's someone I care about, you don't want to end up saying something you'd regret later on.

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:09 am
by sheekh-Farax-zero
Black
Just wait for your moment and strike the right time

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:12 am
by zulaika
in arguments...i never loose my cool...but love to see the other person totally fall apart so i push all the right buttons. :lol:

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:15 am
by SummerRain
Ani miskeen aa ahay. war qof kuma ba so cilin karo.

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:17 am
by Cawar
Never argue with a fool, as ppl might not know the difference.. is my motto..

But we are humans and we are bound to lose our cool, calm and collected-ness ..sometimes. Just dont make a habit out of it.

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:20 am
by black velvet
Why do I believe Gifted and not so much Ismahan? :lol:

Sheekh zeero - Wow premeditated and all...

Zuli - I can't decide if that is better or worse that the other person :|


Cawar - How is it possible that you actually made sense ??

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:23 am
by Madd_Scientist_
i don't get angry often, i rarely loose my cool...but boy when i do, there's no-one who can stop me :oops:

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:24 am
by LaQaNyO
I believe i can manipulate an argument to my favour... all i do is just walk away to be honest and it doesn't get to me at all!
However, if it is someone i care about i just try and reason and beenta ma fiicna.. so barigi hore my definition of reasoning would be lashing out at someone :oops: That has changed now... i learned its best to give yourself some time to digest so you can be rationale about situations.
Laakiin in this particular scenario i don't think i could add something on top of all the criticism unless i was really irritated but even then i would word it nicely :mrgreen:
Runta wax ka fiican ma jiro!

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:24 am
by Cawar
You are wlc...Dhuxuleey.

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:25 am
by Hyperactive
zulaika wrote:in arguments...i never loose my cool...but love to see the other person totally fall apart so i push all the right buttons. :lol:
lol tan hasidsana.

i do the same minus pushing the right buttons.
qofka hadal ka wan ka guraa, untill ay ka nafasan or make fool out of themselves.

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:26 am
by Diyeeshaha_Tolka
Ismahan123 wrote:Ani miskeen aa ahay. war qof kuma ba so cilin karo.
:lol: :lol: yea right ,adiga iyo miskiinad ,,waxaad isku jirtaan cirka iyo dhulka

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:35 am
by zulaika
hyperactive wrote:
zulaika wrote:in arguments...i never loose my cool...but love to see the other person totally fall apart so i push all the right buttons. :lol:
lol tan hasidsana.

i do the same minus pushing the right buttons.
qofka hadal ka wan ka guraa, untill ay ka nafasan or make fool out of themselves.
yeah let em' talk..remember it's not about the quantity of words..but quality and caliber of few chosen words that go right to the point of target.....not saying much is also part of pushing the right buttons...when muran is not reciprocated it goes back to the muranle...causing them to self-destruct.

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 12:02 pm
by black velvet
Cawar wrote:You are wlc...Dhuxuleey.
The best nick I have ever had, thank you :up: :mrgreen:

Re: Stinging during arguments

Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 12:05 pm
by SummerRain
Diyeeshaha_Tolka wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:Ani miskeen aa ahay. war qof kuma ba so cilin karo.
:lol: :lol: yea right ,adiga iyo miskiinad ,,waxaad isku jirtaan cirka iyo dhulka
Aboowe barasho wacaan, waxaa umalayna we had one negative encounter resulting you to have this view about me. But I'm as miskeen as they come. 8-)

BV,

WHY? :shock: