Backbiting is really bad

[Sir-Luggoyo]

but to some ppl, it's become a habit.

I have this friend whom I am thinking of cutting him off because of backbiting. The worst part is, if you tell him to quit, he gets upset instead of being grateful.

I try to cut him short when he is maybe telling me a juicy gossip and say like "Ninyahow naga daa xantu ma fiicnee" he gets furious and calls me names. Why can't he see the goodness I am trying to do for him?

[sheekh-Farax-zero]

when was it good?

[black velvet]

I just did it, I was trying to ignore the guilt lakin you have made it impossible.

Does it help if you apologise to the person?

[ms.naliaa]

Karma is a biaaatch.


Keep your distance away from him cause u never know the ish he saying about u

[Sir-Luggoyo]

I just did it, I was trying to ignore the guilt lakin you have made it impossible.

Does it help if you apologise to the person?

BV

I am glad I was of service to you. Yes it helps, but you have to recount everything you said about that person, also depends, if s/he accepts yr apology.

The phenomena these days is, the myth that "only women backbite" has evaborated, raggii baaba ka daray oo haweenkii dhaafay, belaayo

[LaQaNyO]

I am not trying to make excuses or justify anything here… but men that backbite; I seriously can't stand… I really and sincerely believe that he lacks something somewhere uhum!!

But either way… If i see someone backbite about people they know really well..
Personally I would never trust that person, chances are they will talk about you behind your back tomorrow.

BV..thought u knew better madame

[black velvet]

Do I have to say what I said?

[Sir-Luggoyo]

Do I have to say what I said?

Every word of it.

[black velvet]

Ok


Laqanyo

[surrender]

and is also haraam. us girls are known it be big in that field. inaalahy hanaga cafiyo! but guys backbiting?? dude whats wrong with ur friend?

[LaQaNyO]

Ok


Laqanyo

Being honest about it.. might mean that they might not forgive you but at least you have beaten the initial concept of backbiting---( half way) Cafwan from me anyway

[Cawar]

Do I have to say what I said?

Every word of it.

Man you have no idea what your doing..

[eyes-only]

I've always known guys are worse at this shit.

Anyway, I don't backbite

[Daanyeer]

I HATE BACKBITING specialyy in the case of MEN . It's DISGUSTISTING .

But DEAR brothers&sisters KEEP in MIND that many ppl BELiEVE that through BACKBITING,LYING etc one BECOMES SOCIALIZED. THOSE PPL with LOW SELF-ESTEEM think that if they not TOOK part in BACKBITING , they woukld be STIGMIZED as ANTI-SOCIAL ( DAMMANE SHIBBAN ).


''KUN kheyran ow FALYASMUT'

[admin]

lol@surrender g point daanyeer