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Why Is that all of women pursue guys in relationship - even after they have been told the person in question is "taken" or "Married" . I've never entertained the idea of stalking or 'shukaansing' a married women or even a women in serious relationship for that matter.

But I see more and more women aggressively pursuing married guys-that's home wrecking by definition if you ask me. I've personally seen a lot of cases as well.

Guys usually run a mile when they run into a girl in relationship

Captain24 wrote:Why Is that all of women pursue guys in relationship - even after they have been told the person in question is "taken" or "Married" . I've never entertained the idea of stalking or 'shukaansing' a married women or even a women in serious relationship for that matter.

But I see more and more women aggressively pursuing married guys-that's home wrecking by definitions if you ask me. I've personally seen a lot of cases as well.

Guys usually run a mile when they run into a girl in relationship

Il Capitano ,
take may advise speacially when u are in canada and london . if u are a single NEVER say u are a single women in canada and england love married guys its their challenge so if u want get some say u are married

Captain24 wrote:Why Is that all of women pursue guys in relationship - even after they have been told the person in question is "taken" or "Married" . I've never entertained the idea of stalking or 'shukaansing' a married women or even a women in serious relationship for that matter.

But I see more and more women aggressively pursuing married guys-that's home wrecking by definitions if you ask me. I've personally seen a lot of cases as well.

Guys usually run a mile when they run into a girl in relationship

lol

Captain24 wrote:Guys usually run a mile when they run into a girl in relationship

lol

Shambo , You heard what goes up must come down or what goes around comes aroudn? I believe in that. I Know I can cheat on my wife, but I know somebody else would do it to my wife, or daughter

Hell fck to that

This is beacuse Shaydaanku markuu rabo inuu guri reer dumiyo dhinaca raga masoo mari karo, he usually likes to come through Dhinaca dumarka, cus dumar are naturally weak dealing with him, thats why the majority of home wreckers are dumar..

captain,

gaaladu they have home wreckers but at least they are vilified..laakiin anagu problemka na hesyta waxa weeye...diinti baa xalaleysey in ninku wali eligible ahaan kadho even asagoo married ah..bacden this gives the green light to what i like to regard as "xalaal home-wreckers" therefore for these women oo raga taken ah ka helo..the most eligible bachelor is the one who is ineligible..yacni already married.

ms.naliaa wrote:lol@ this pathetic excuse for a topic.

takes two to tango.

Are you sure you are not bringing grudges from another thread last week?

zulaika wrote:captain,

gaaladu they have home wreckers but at least they are vilified..laakiin anagu problemka na hesyta waxa weeye...diinti baa xalaleysey in ninku wali eligible ahaan kadho even asagoo married ah..bacden this gives the green light to what i like to regard as "xalaal home-wreckers" therefore for these women oo raga taken ah ka helo..the most eligible bachelor is the one who is ineligible..yacni already married.

Woow, very smart response. That totally escaped my brain

Captain24

I think some of them don't know that they're wrecking families because guys are allowed to marry four and others genuinely think the guy is all that and want him for themselves. Some women are so evil that they would befriend the wife and spread all sorts of rumours against the husband so as to break them up and marry the guy which I think is totally sad and others think it's the right of their clan to steal the man if he's married to someone from another clan.....I find that disgusting.

But it takes two to tango so we can't really blame women for all of it.

Captain24 wrote:

ms.naliaa wrote:lol@ this pathetic excuse for a topic.

takes two to tango.

Are you sure you are not bringing grudges from another thread last week?

No,
but say for arguments sake I meet a married man and he does not disclose this info ot me. Is it my fault that he didnt tell me the truth? Of course not.
If I start dating him (not knowing) is that also my fault? Again, no!
So whose the home wrecker in this situation?
The man
Its always the mans fault cause he persued a woman other than his wife.
I just dont like that ur putting the blame on the woman thats all...i think its a load of B.S.

Eyes Only, those girls using religions are hypocrites. They might get away back home but not in the West. They do know that you can't legally marry two females in the West, so they do know that they are wrecking homes

Home wreckers?? that word does not exist in the Islamic vocabulary.

Ms.Nalia, you have valid points, but come on it wouldn't take you a week to discover if a guy is married. If a guy hides that he's married, most likely he wants one night stands(in most cases). If he really wants to marry you, he'd break the news to you right from the get go

Cawar wrote:Home wreckers?? that word does not exist in the Islamic vocabulary.

Yes it does.
You just choose not to look for it